Went to a wedding last weekend. It was neat to witness a Chinese wedding first hand. A large group, myself included, followed the groom to the bride's home where we all tried to get the groom into the bride's room. People were banging on the door and window trying to convince the bride to let him in. This was followed by a dinner, a lot of waiting, and a tea ceremony. The next day the couple had a western-style wedding; you know, with the white dress, flowers, and cheesy gameshow host. It was a bit different. The role of the flower girl was played by two grown men who pelted the couple with the petals. But it was fun and interesting.