Need to know what Tou is like with a chronically ill/physically disabled S/O 👀
Tou would do research on their condition, and talk to them about their needs and wants. he'd make sure he has a good understanding of them so that he can be the best partner he can be for them. their disability wouldn't be all, or most, or a large part of what he sees in them of course, but he wouldn't just ignore it and act like they can do anything and everything an able-bodied person could do. because that's not how being disabled works. nor would he act like they can't do anything. he would learn what they can and can't do. what is hard for them. and be understanding if/when those things change. include them in activities they can do, and help them in any way, big or small, that is welcomed. he may jump at opportunities to help them at times, but tone it back if they tell him to. all n all. he'd just.. be a good partner lmao. more specific to physically disabled people, but: if they express any desire for some expensive mobility aid they can't afford or something of the sort, he'll find a way to get them one as a surprise. whether that be through getting his Undyn to make it or saving and raising the money to buy it for them.
