#placiosexuality

[freethelgbtqia]

[Image description: A placio pride flag shaped like a peace sign on a gray background]

Placio: someone who enjoys giving affection or pleasure, but doesn’t want to receive it

[aestheticdear-blog]

Placiosexuality rain, lightning, and the night sky done for request

[freethelgbtqia]

[Image description: a semicolon with the word Survive under it with the placio pride flag for a background (pic 1), the placio pride flag for the semicolon (pic 2), the placio pride flag for the Survive (pic 3), and the placio pride flag for semicolon and survive (pic 4)]

Placio: someone who enjoys giving affection or pleasure, but doesn’t want to receive it

[freethelgbtqia]

[Image description: paint splatter with the placio pride colors]

Placio: someone who enjoys giving affection or pleasure, but doesn’t want to receive it

[freethelgbtqia]

[Image description: A black silhouette with stars on it in the colors of the placio pride flag, being embraced by hands coming from a swirl made of the placio pride flag]

[freethelgbtqia]

[ID: left a black heartbeat line that forms a heart in the middle with the placio flag for a background, right a black background with the placio flag for the heartbeat]

[freethelgbtqia]

[demigray]

Im very new to this. Tho I do desire a romantic relationship, I do not desire the sex. I get aroused only when fantasizing about pleasuring whomever I'm dating (or trying to be normal and date) but not in person. I definitely do not desire to receive sexual acts from that person. If they dont desire sex at all, perfect; however, if they do desire it, I have no probs giving them that if that's what makes them happy. So i guess I only desire their happiness. Grey? Placio? Akoi? Quoi? All of them?

There are a lot of asexual people who feel exactly this way, so that label could very well work for you. If you don’t feel like that’s the right label, I’d suggest looking into gray asexual, as it’s meant for people who identify with asexuality but not quite, and/or placiosexual, as that means you like to give but not receive (a similar term is stone). Akoisexual and quoisexual don’t mean what you’re describing.