when people are screaming they are heard and drown out voices of reason
If you want to be a feminist great, if you want to be an antifeminist and classify yourself as a humanist or and equalist then that's fine, because it's not my place to judge. However I implore you all to stop listening to all screaming and shouting because 9/10 they want to start trouble and will refuse to listen to anyone but themselves. I also implore you to treat the other side with some respect. If someone talks to you with respect then please don't make fun of them, don't curse at them, because when you do this you are reinforcing a stereotype.
So antifeminist don't say "all feminist are man haters." why you haven't met every feminist, and when you talk like that you tend to sound like those kinds of feminist you dislike. Yes there are some who hate men and want to see bad things happen to them but it's not all of them.
Feminist please don't attack someone who claims to be antifeminist, you can explain in a mature fashion why you are a feminist but chances are you aren't going to change their mind and it's vide versa.
I have met men who are feminist and who are against feminism, I have met feminist that have made me angry and I have met feminist who are amazing. In short it's all about who you are exposed to.
However this is my opinion and I cannot control anyone, but hopefully I can give you all something to think about.