Carmy has to learn to stop leaving. Just be present, both physically and mentally.Stop leaving. be here. stop promising not to leave and then leave. It keeps happening over and over. Our girl Sydney, she's hanging on by a thread in all levels of being his partner.
she finds it hard to lean on people outside of her Dad. To trust, but she trusts Carmy and she's waiting for him to show up finally. but he still isn't here. He's a ghost. Ha needs to take what she offers him: patience, being realiable, gentleness, and taking responsibility for yourself. She's right there but he seems to be fit on leaving and running to things he knows doesn't serve him.