AITA for trying to tell the rest of our members its okay for my boyfriend to date me?
So I am a member whose internal age is complicated. In some ways I am ageless, in some I am hundreds of thousands of years, and in others I am like, 18-20. My boyfriend is about 2000 years old but other than having a lot of wisdom and life experience internally, his maturity level is probably 21-30 years old (kinda hard to determine). We are of the same system.
Some other beings see this as "18 year old dating 2000 year old". Translating the thoughts I sent them and words mixed together, I basically told them that they don't know the whole context and that there is nothing wrong with our relationship. I tried to tell them that even though I am typically seen as around 18 I am actually much older in many ways and am definitely not a child at the moment, and he is also not as mentally "old" as some of them were thinking. Despite this certain member are still very apprehensive and it is ruining both of our reputations among some of the other members (this is important because we are both in trust-based leadership positions right now).
(Another member [with permission] coming in to add some context, the member who wrote this is an age slider and can sometimes be as young as 16 and sometimes as old as her boyfriend. The range she listed is what I would say she is usually at. I do not think the boyfriend has ill intentions but that is part of why certain members are concerned.)
aita?
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ESH
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