#polyagony

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@polyagony well and truly Called Out

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@polyagony replied to your photo:say hello to the horror that was me 5 years ago……

Oh my god man ����������������

this was 5 years ago today i'm so ashamed

[complacent-bedhead]

I’ve been tagged

Rule 1: always post the rules

Rule 2: Answer the questions the person who tagged you asked and write 11 new ones

Rule 3: Tag 11 people

Rule 4: Let them know that you’ve tagged them

so, new questions:

1) when and why did you join tumblr?

i think maybe it was 2012 in october but i could be wring, time just seems to squish together when u do nothing

2) from where are you and where would you like to live, if you could choose right now? Im half irish half swedish, not sure where, id like to live a bit more south

3) favourite 

movie

show

book

celebrity

Favorite movie i think is Detention because it was so weird, althoguh it did have a serial killer, parties, meta, a time machine, switching of minds and aliens Favorite show right now is modern family Book would be the bookthief and celebrity would be Meryl Streep

4) do you have any siblings or pets? I have a sister and no pets

5) favourite piece of clothing? A bra and a cropped sweater

6) how would you describe your personality? Unstable, concerning, confusing, and adorable. 

7) something you’re very passionate about? Books and feminism

8) which language would you want to be fluent in and why? French because then i would pass that subject, also it would be great for travling

9) favourite song(s)? Fairytale of new york, Broken Girl, Should i stay or should i go, All along the watchtower, Alone together, Valerie and Wish you were here

10) favourite followers? YOU AND YOU AND YOU, honestly all of you cause u send me things on anon and i dont know who it is so it could be any of you.

11) and, finally, if you had a tardis (or something similar) and could go back and forth in time, and could change one event in history/future, what would it be and why? I think i would try to stop the atomic bomb because im not a big fan of weapons and less damage would be done 

My questions  1. Latest book you read and what you thought of it? 2. Newest ship? 3. If you could live in one fictional universe which one would it be? 4. What hogwarts house are you? 5. Favorite film? 6. Song thats stuck in your head right now? 7. Favorite place? 8. Place you want to visit and why? 9. Favorite person right now? 10. Best memory? 11. Secret wish that you want to come true?

[ghostickles]

«YOU CAN TELL A LOT ABOUT SOMEONE BY THE TYPE OF MUSIC THEY LISTEN TO. HIT SHUFFLE ON YOUR IPOD, PHONE, ITUNES, MEDIA PLAYER ETC AND WRITE DOWN THE FIRST 20 SONGS. HERE ARE THE RULES: NO SKIPPING! BE HONEST! THEN PASS THIS ON TO 10 PEOPLE!»

I was tagged by gunz4hands!

1) Always - Blink 182

2) Damaged soul - Black Sabbath

3) Siva - The Smashing Pumpkins

4) Why Don't I Miss You - Bowling For Soup

5) Girls - Marina And The Diamonds

6) Dead End Dreams - Man Overboard

7) Little Liar - Joan Jett

8) Black Beauty - Lana Del Rey

9) Caught - Descendents

10) Paper Dreams - Lucy Spraggan

11) Desperado - Eagles

12) If You Wanna - The Vaccines

13) Paralyzed - The Used

14) Sarah Smiles - Panic! At The Disco

15) Poprocks & Coke - Green Day

16) Golden Boys - NOFX

17) Inbred City - Stooshe

18) Submission - Sex Pistols

19) Die Young - Kesha

20) Aberdeen - Cage The Elephant

(you dont have to do it)

[herdirtylittleheart]

Things I wanted to do when in the midst of some poly-drama:

Run away to Guam alone and befriend the dolphins.

Things I did instead:

Asked for a little space.

Took some time to process the hard feels.

Took some time to calm down.

Told my partners how I was feeling.

Engaged in dialogue about those feelings.

Created strategies to make it easier next time.

Celebrated adult-like behaviour with ice cream. 

[fuzzycatsweaters]

Polyamory dynamics

In other news I think I have a crush on one of my partners' old partners, who is also poly and queer and rad and beautiful. And is probably going on a date with my partner.

[poly-problems]

(noun). The stress of "tending to the needs of multiple partners, figuring out what to tell the kids (if you have them), making sure that nobody's feelings are hurt." - Ken Haslam in Newsweek.

Personally, I think "polyagony" is the term for when you end up dating a bunch of jealous monogamists.