#polyam issues

[lostwolf-fandomlover]

Big polyam issues

When you like multiple people

But you to scared to ask any of them

And too scared to ask the one you are with if you can have the other too

And everyone judges you

Or thinks you're greedy

And explaining it is impossible

And nothing you do is good enough

So you get sad

Cuz you lose one

Or two

Or all of them

Please just let me have them all and be eternally happy

I've had my bad days

Give me good ones

With all of my loves

Cuz I realllllly love them

Ahhhhhhhhhhh

[polyam-fam]

Hey folks. I'm back. I've been gone for a while because my partner, Ollie passed away in August and I didn't have the heart to come back to this blog. Then John and I broke up because he was unsupportive through my grieving period. He didn't know Ollie well so he kind of like "wow that sucks" and then didn't talk to me. So then we had a conversation, I tried to tell him how I felt and he made this all about him instead of talking to me about the real issue.

Its been 4 months since Ollie has been gone. I miss him.

[sullivanwrites]

In honor of polyamory week I want to talk about something that’s bugging me with my own relationships:

I have a “metamor” who isn’t exactly dating my partner due to long distance and I think this person is a good guy, they’re nice, I’m friendly with them but whenever I post about my parent they always reply with “I’m so jealous” or “how does it feel to be so lucky” and it’s pissing me off? Like Jesus Christ it’s not a cute look to tell me how jealous you are of me every time I post about someone in dating

I know you like them, I don’t care about that but it’s really putting me off in general, jealousy isn’t cute, I know it’s “normal” but it’s gross