I see what you are saying. And I understand that some people might interpret all of this differently.
But what I had got from (both seasons and the finale) was, of course reluctance on Kala's part to be wed to Rajan and to continue to be his wife. But when I saw them for the finale it looked as if Kala had grown to love him. (As can happen and yes I do agree it did seem a bit rushed with the time frame we do have but unfortunately its what we have to work with since the Netflix cancellation but that does not mean that they didn’t talk about their relationship).I found that endearing, I felt that Kala and Rajan were coming to a place in their relationship where they were understanding each other's feelings. Wolfgang was an expected variable in the relationship and I agree that Kala seeing him especially since she has feelings for him without telling Rajan was inappropriate.
But to me it seems that they have talked and are in the process of getting through it. Rajan did seem a little wary back at his friend’s place but then they start getting more comfortable with each other after the road trip and other scenes (bonding time)
Thanking Rajan, it is hard for Wolfgang to express himself to people that he’s not close to yet, so this is a step for him. And also making the effort to get along with Rajan (even if he and Rajan aren’t together, polyam relationships in a hinge are valid and they partners can be friends)
Wolfgang and Kala cuddled up in the backseat, Rajan is aware and looks totally alright with it. He even enjoys himself as they all start singing and bonding.
When they met up with Felix, Wolfgang said that it was complicated and it is.
Kala dies for a bit and it devastates them both. Rajan is mostly happy that his wife does not stay dead but in this scene there’s no resentment (that I can see) from Rajan about kissing Kala. This is right after she is revived and Rajan is in the room and sees Wolfgang’s grief and joy, he sees the kiss and he’s fine with it. He then goes on to kiss his wife and give her attention as Wolfgang willingly moves away so Rajan can.
Trip to the doctor where they bring Wolfgang along. Rajan is relaxed, even happy (as they joke about his last visit and Wolfgang gets confused) but Rajan isn’t irritated that Wolfgang is there, he’s not broody or jealous, he’s supporting his wife and is fine with their lover being there.
Ah yes the infamous after wedding threesome that people claim that Wolfgang is just in Kala’s head. To me it looks as if he was waiting for them both, yes a little drunk on champagne, but there. (I honestly interpreted this to be that they were all sharing a room or at least that Wolfgang was sleeping there with them)
Kala sees Wolfgang (this is obviously not planned but seems to be a welcome surprise, because Rajan also looks and /SEES/ Wolfgang)
Wolfgang is implying that they both join him, he looks happy and carefree (not uncomfortable, he knows what he’s getting himself into)
Rajan takes a moment to consider this (while making eye contact with Wolfgang)
This is not the face of a man who feels uncomfortable or is angry with the implications of this situation. He looks more amused than anything.
Its clear that Rajan can see Wolfgang as they start engaging Kala together, if he wasn’t there I feel like this scene would have gone a lot different.
Also in this frame Rajan is touching Wolfgang, holding him as they all partake in this consensual threesome.
Relationships are not perfect and these three are no exception.
I am upset because people kept erasing their blooming relationship, as a polyam person I feel like this is important to have. Other polyam people may disagree but I am fond of these three so that’s just me.
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