#polyamorous self shipper

[nebbymakesimagines]

Possessive F/O this, possessive S/I that.

Imagine telling your F/O(s) that you've been hanging out with new people and they give you a high five and ask "oh cool can they join us?"

Maybe they wanna hang out with them as friends. Or maybe this is how you end up with another F/O...

[nekoqueenalice]

This Person Really Said Only Straight Monogamous Self-Shippers Are Valid LMAO

Okay so I need to talk about something absolutely wild I came across recently.

There's this person (abrielleofchrist on Tumblr) who made a whole ass post about how self-shipping is only "valid" if you're a heterosexual, monogamous, non-sharing self-shipper. Yeah, you read that right. They literally said that polyamorous self-shippers, sharing self-shippers, and LGBTQ+ self-shippers are "not valid" because it goes against "biblical standards."

Let me be clear - weaponizing religion to shame people for how they enjoy FICTIONAL CHARACTERS is absolutely unhinged behavior. Like genuinely, what kind of mental gymnastics do you have to do to care THAT much about other people's imaginary relationships???

Here's my take: this person is clearly just bitter and jealous because they're single with nobody to love, so they're out here trying to police how other people find joy and comfort. It's giving sad, it's giving miserable, it's giving "I'm gonna make everyone else feel bad because I'm unhappy."

And just so we're crystal clear - I'm pansexual, polyamorous, and into open relationships. I'm not gonna suddenly become heterosexual and monogamous just because some baby on the internet is crying about how I enjoy my F/Os. My partners and I are happy, we're thriving, and we're not changing for anybody.

The audacity to bring scripture into self-shipping and then act like YOU get to decide whose relationships are valid??? Girl bye. Log off and go touch some grass.

Anyway, I'm putting this out there so people know what kind of nonsense is floating around. Do with this information what you will - I'm not here to tell anyone what to do, I'm just saying this person's take is absolutely trash and deserved to be called out.

Stay silly, stay happy, and keep loving your F/Os however the hell you want. 💕✨