These abusers and preds who say that me and others like me being vindictive and angry won't make us happy makes me laugh. I get quite the kick out of making them squirm and feel angry enough to wish I get flayed alive & start ranting like anime villains on the verge of losing in my inbox. They really only have ONE comeback and it's "um...well... you're mean!!!". (and no, dodging responsibility and accountability for your words isn't a comeback! it's cowardice ;-P)
A reminder that vindication and spite are NOT inherently bad emotions. You are allowed to be angry. You are allowed to be spiteful. And you sure as fuck are allowed to be vindictive. Don't let them steal your spark from you, and don't let them assign morality to YOUR emotions just because they feel some type of way about it.
