Lilla: noooo, it's because I love you, dumbass!
🦦: you love his dumb ass?
Lilla: I love his dumb ass!
me: but you are my dumbass!!
Lilla: wh?
me: does that mean you finally love yourself??
Lilla: I'm trying!!
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Lilla: noooo, it's because I love you, dumbass!
🦦: you love his dumb ass?
Lilla: I love his dumb ass!
me: but you are my dumbass!!
Lilla: wh?
me: does that mean you finally love yourself??
Lilla: I'm trying!!
FUCK YOU ANXIETY!! YOU CAN SUCK MY ASS
What a fucking bitch
yes i’m ugly as all fuck but that’s a worthy sacrifice i chose to make. in my previous life i exchanged my ethereal beauty for intelligence, personality and the ability to burst into tears at will. how dare you challenge me. you fool. you utter idiot. you mortal. you should be Cowering
psa: happy trans headcanons are radical and good
there’s nothing wrong in portraying different struggles, but you don’t have to include great struggle and suffering to your trans headcanon - trans people can have easy and happy lives, and it’s more than ok for your headcanon to be a happy escapist thing.
you don’t have to always center your headcanon around transitioning struggles or the character being denied access to treatments that they need and want. it’s good and radical to portray trans people who are post-transition (whatever that means to them!!) and in a good place in life. this goes double for trans adults - there are many of us who are autonomous and independent, who have overcome the hurdles between them and the treatments they want. it’s a good thing to portray characters like this to give hope, to remind people that yes it is possible, the future isn’t hopeless!
i love the representation of different experiences regarding especially medical transitioning in fandom that mainstream media lacks. recently, however, i realized my discomfort with certain portrayals wasn’t just linked to my personal experiences with dysphoria, but to the way especially adult trans headcanons tend to focus on the characters being in a perpetual state of being denied the treatments they desperately need, instead of portraying for example non-op trans men through an affirming lens, as men who made and own their own decisions. this is talking about adult characters who in canon are independent, financially well-off, and otherwise in a very fortunate position to pursue medical transition!! why do we do this? why can’t we allow being trans to be a happy thing and trans people being successful even when everything in canon is enabling that?
so especially my fellow trans folks, don’t feel like your headcanon is “too idealistic” or “too perfect” or any of that shit! if you don’t want to discuss the hardships or struggles, don’t! happy stories are useful and valuable too, especially when reality is often the opposite.
its just???? so nice having a favorite character???? like if you’re sad you can just picture them cheering you up somehow???? scared? no worries ur faves there!!!! bored??? fuck it you and ur fave are gonna go on an adventure!!!! its just Such A Nice Feeling
hell yeah my dude
I know I joke a lot about my trash art, but I'm not giving up on it. Neither should you. I see a lot of people's tags saying they wished they hadn't given up or saying they wish they knew where to start. Well guess what? It's never too late. Pick up that pencil and start drawing, believe in yourself. You're going to make a lot of stuff that you hate, but you will eventually see improvement, I promise you this. Watch tutorials, watch art streams, trace stuff, use bases. Just don't give up, please. Continue creating and practicing. Keep your old work. After some time you'll look at your old work and see how far you've come. I believe in you!