Hi do you do really picky recs? So a realistic setting epilogue where Ron and Hermione stay together but Ginny and Harry don't. Also mentions of Luna and Neville's post-Hogwarts life. Maybe the repercussions of the war and not knowing what they're doing with their lives..? (Some days I want to rip the epilogue out of my copy of DH bc I hate the immediate happily ever after) also I love your vibrant quirky personality :)
Hmm, this is pretty specific so i definitely am not going to be able to do any sort of detailed list, but maybe you’d like Such Great Heights by @dddraconis (93.5K)?
Summary: Draco Malfoy, wide-eyed and pale and in a decidedly ragged shirt, was crouched next to the pile of whatever the dragon had been eating. Harry threw himself to a halt and yelled, “Merlin, how many times do I have to save your life?”
Thoughts: There are innumerable aspects of this fic that I absolutely adored, but by far for me the highlight is the DRAGON. THERE’S A DRAGON. POST-WAR EXISTENTIAL ANGST AND A FUCKING DRAGON, PEOPLE. What’s not to love? Regarding your ask, you should note that basically all of the kids (mostly Gryffindors) living together at Grimmauld Place with Harry are very open with their relationships, and not only has Harry not really broken up with Ginny at the beginning of the fic, he has a few moments with some other characters as well. But IT’S ALL FOR THE PLOT AND THE CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT and the endgame is Harry/Draco and I really can not think of a better coming-of-age-after-the-war fic to recommend!