#potential syscourse

[lastgunfighters]

It is not normal or even healthy to be so obsessed with the way that other people identify, it is not normal to be so obsessed with what labels use to describe what is going on especially when it comes to strangers online. It is very concerning when some systems act like it's this sudden evil thing when another system finds comfort and happiness in their plurality. Why are you bashing on obviously healthy system dynamics? I can only assume jealously and that is not healthy.

Putting other systems down for one reason or another is just super lame and speaks more on you* than anyone else and it just a bad taste in anyone's mouth who reads it especially those directly impacted by the bullying.

I think the attitude also raises the act of fakeclaiming systems that aren't in 24/7 agony and pain (or don't have hatred for being a system). Which is worrying.

To repeat: It is not normal or even healthy to be so obsessed with the way that other people identify, it is not normal to be so obsessed with what labels use to describe what is going on especially when it comes to strangers online.

[lastgunfighters]

"Why are endogenics on our dash!"

Blocking and filtering tags exist. "endo safe", "pro endo", "endo system", "pluralgang", "plural system" and many more are all seen as pro endogenic tags, if you do not wish to see them you have all the power in the world to block said tags.

Settings > General Settings > Filtering. You can also chose to just block the original posters, or simply scroll past. Curate your own experiences online. Crying and complaining about it does nothing.

[lastgunfighters]

"[xyz] may be an endo-coined term but I'm using it anyway"

Who cares if it's "endo coined"? If it explains what's going on: use it. While I understand more psychiatric terms or even terms that are meant to be more CDD exclusive experiences, when it comes to community terms where anyone can use it: who cares.

"Oh my God, can't believe [term] that fits our experience is on the pluralpedia, a pro-endogenic site grr."

Again. Who cares. Pluralpedia is a community sourced project meant to document and archive mainly community made terms it has also been a place where psychiatric terms also exist, acting as an online dictionary, basically. While yeah I get the issues some may have with it but without it (and other places like tumblr and even pinterest) I would have never found terms like "political holder", I would have never found a term like "hospital experiencer" and so on.

Acting like it was created by some "evil force" is just ridiculous. Like I said with how a term may have been "endo-coined" or whatever, if it fits: use it.

If I may make a reference all this reminds me of whenever someone complains about something that is in reality so insignificant, you all sound like this to me:

"Ugh, later we're gonna be forced to take one of those happiness family photos that come in the restaurants tacky frame"

"Why are you so fucking negative all the time"