#potter pride

[disneyprinceronweasley]

Harry Potter au where Hermione is the chosen one and Ron and Harry are the sidekicks that fall in love.

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Happy Pride Month!

The Harry Potter community is one that has always tried to be welcoming and understanding of others, we hope that you take this month to learn more and celebrate LGBT+ history. How are you celebrating pride this month?

[disneyprinceronweasley]

head canons that Ron would start off by being a jerk if Harry came out as bi to him are ridiculous, the most likely outcome would be Ron planning to say it at the same time and both of them actually talking about their sexuality and totally fucking accepting each other

[disneyprinceronweasley]

 bisexual Ron Weasley headcanons

Ron was lucky enough to grow up with many, many strong role models in his life.

These didn’t just include those in his life but those he read about in magazines, namely quidditch stars. 

Ron was pretty certain he’d never get to be as good as them but his love of quidditch was the most important part. Well, it was partly due to his love of the game..but there was something more...a way his brothers wouldn’t look at them.

Ron didn’t tend to think about why much, it could get boring at home all the time and the magazines were an escape. He very rarely got the opportunity to go to matches so it wasn’t odd to pour himself out over quidditch players he admired.

Although the way he looked at the female players was the same, he tried to justify this by saying he wasn’t attracted to any of them.

As he grew older, he was able to appreciate the girls he knew. There were some crushes but mostly he was just able to see them for attractive. 

He watched Krum make his way to the Bulgaria world cup team. How could someone so young be able to play professionally? As he watched this happen he must have read every article on Krum.

Ron reacted to the Veela’s as did every male in the audience who was attracted to women. He could never quite understand how there charm worked it was just so enchanting. And did it matter how it worked?

He spent the match using the omnioculars to watch Krum. He was actually in the same place as his idol. Wow.

Ron was constantly in awe of Krum’s talents, how could he look so swift on a broom?

Admittedly, Krum looked more clumsy on the ground but that didn’t matter, he was still transfixed. 

When he was surprised to see Krum and the durmstrang institute turn up to the school his idolisation continued

It was quite a confusing moment when his actions appeared to be only comparable to the girls at school, his reaction was embarrassment not really considering what it meant

Ron, like Harry, didn’t really put much consideration in to daiting until he needed a date. 

Leaving the dates until last minuet had been stupid. It just hadn’t occurred to him he would need one.

He couldn’t help but crush on Fleur. She was beautiful and her veeala heritage did help. It hurt a lot to be rejected by her.

Ron considered the easiest route would be to go with Harry. His best friend,the easiest person to spend time with 

By that thought he decided to ash Hermione as his date. Again, it hurt to feel this rejection. He regretted waiting so long to ask her now and wondered if she was saying no to him to be spiteful. 

It was through this period Ron started to really look at how he felt towards Hermione. He guessed it was in fact more than just friends.

Ron was grateful he was able to get a date for the ball. In hindsight he regretted not making more of an effort with Padma. He appropriated her beauty but he just couldn’t connect with her. I think she understood when she was older.

The feelings of jealousy towards seeing Hermione dance with Krum were hard to define. Ron assumed it was more to do with his developing feelings towards Hermione than his envious attitude of Krum’s talent.

He eventually speaks out to Harry about the mix of feelings. Although he doesn’t voice it at the time it’s then Ron starts to identify the feelings of more than just quidditch jealous towards Krum.

By the end of the year, Ron has accepted these feelings to an extent. Debating weather or not to ask for his autograph was basically a turning point for him when he chose to ask for it. He knew Krum had been nice to Harry and Hermione. He wasn’t that bad he guessed aware there jealousy was mixed with attraction. 

Ron accepted that his feelings towards Krum were a crush. Not that he didn’t envy the time he had gotten to spent with Hermione or his talents at quidditch. But the underlying factor was his feelings towards Krum.

It was a shame he and Harry didn’t get to see one another over this summer as he never quite got to voice his feelings to anyone. Ron couldn’t bring himself to talk to his siblings. 

Hermione asked him to the Slug Club meeting and the idea of spending time with Hermione in a date setting was interesting to him. However, it occurred to him she only saw it as a friend thing. What if he made a foll of himself?

While at school, Ginny made him painfully aware of his lack of experience. It was weird. He had’t really cared before now but why was he so far behind all his friends?

The confusing jealousy reared it’s head when Hermione was still writing to Krum. Why couldn’t he separate his feelings for them when they were together. Crushes on them both conflicted ideas and jealousy was all that showed.

Lavender made it clear she was interested in him. She wasn’t just a date like Padma had been, someone who might just be an idol like Krum, or someone who may just like him as a friend as Hermione probably did.

Lavender seemed to like Ron for Ron. He liked being liked for himself and if things had gone differently and Lavender hadn’t wanted to be so serious so quickly, maybe they could have worked out...well for a bit longer and ended better. Maybe this was part of the reason he dealt with some of the better, he was pretty confused still after all.

Things didn’t work out well here as another crush had fallen through although he left it with experience. 

He hadn’t felt comfortable telling Harry, well anyone, while he was daiting Lavender that he thought he was bisexual. Once that was over he decided it was time, apparently almost dying can do that to a person.

Harry was glad to accept Ron. Took all those words to heart and felt the importance of being the one Ron trusted when he had so many relatives he could talk to.

Being out even just to Harry was an important moment to him.

Ron’s crush on Fleur continued but he became gradually more aware of application of males attractiveness too. Constantly being around her didn’t help.

His feelings were starting to grow for Hermione when he finally told her about his sexuality. Hermione was really cool about it all, accepting, had too many questions but he liked her knowing.

The idea of coming out to his family were highly postponed by the impending war. And the fact of telling them made him nervous it felt like a good reason not to.

The summer before they were on the run Ron’s crush grew on Hermione every day. There were strong feelings by the time they went on the run with Harry. One of the only things he liked about this time was all the time he got to spend with Hermione.

It took Ron seven years but he finally got to kiss Hermione and it was the best feeling in the world. There was something different behind this kiss than those he had shared in the past. The love, the history, the adrenaline. It had all led up to this moment with the love of his life.

Ron and Hermione were able to start seeing each other once the war had ended.

It played on his mind that he had never told his family about his sexuality despite the intention to stay in this male and female relationship for the rest of his life.

It was a few years after the war he finally told his family about his sexuality.

There were some stupid questions mixed in with the acceptance. Mostly surrounding the fact he was daiting Hermione and had only dated females. However, the most important part was the acceptance and understanding they grew to take.

It wasn’t long after everyone knew he decided to propose to Hermione.

His forever person.

[disneyprinceronweasley]

Listen ron realizing he’s bi when krum goes to hogwarts

lets bi honest he totally had a crush on him and Hermione, same with Harry Cho and Cedric - to bi honest. 

[disneyprinceronweasley]

But of course I just won’t ever write about them not even on my site where I can talk about anything Potter related

[disneyprinceronweasley]

Dean: You okay? I was the fire and figured you must be here.

[disneyprinceronweasley]

i’ve been thinking about about the whole no LGBT+ representation in Potter thing. J.K. has many, many places to talk about her characters in more details outside the books. For example, Pottermore where we read about some couples, such as Lyall and Hope Lupin or Mcgongall and her ex partner- one of his teachers and people we never heard about in text. Then there’s the new editions, where we’ve gained information about more of his teachers as Sprout and Flitwick were in a relationship once. However, what has Dumbledore’s relationships had? A few arguably implied chapters in DH and comments in interviews. Why has she never actually published something on the subject if we can get relationships of other teachers? How is that relevant to Harry’s story? Anywho, I’m newly mad.