(1)While there could be predators on each side of the discourse, antis don't notice for some reason that there are lots of them over at their side because, come on - of course those people wouldn't like fictional gross stuff like age gap ships. Why would they when there are unassuming real life minors on the anti side who are willing to divulge their trauma and their personal information to strangers and believes that fictional taste can gauge morals. Why would they go for the fake when there's
(2) real kids right there? And the so called "pure and moral" adults who claim to want to "protect" minors don't teach them what's right and even sends them towards danger in the name of protecting fictional kids.
See, this is the real danger of anti positions. Beyond it just making for a shitty fandom experience to have to be hypervigilant about the content you enjoy consume and produce, it just primes people to believe that predators are easy to spot.
“This person likes x content, so of course they’re a predator” naturally - and honestly probably unconsciously - primes people to simultaneously believe, “And that person speaks out against x content, so they must not be a predator.”
Predators thrive in environments where their abuse and intentions can be obfuscated, where they can manipulate people and gain their trust. When a community is fostered based on paying lipservice and not actual beliefs and action, it’s so, so easy for the wrong types of people to worm their way to the top and take advantage of whatever audience they end up with.
The focus on fictional shit being the Worst of the Worst and the Main Thing that decides what type of person you are, and holding up paying lip service to anti ideals as the main marker of a Trustworthy person is exactly how you end up with the dogwives and ollie’s of the world - where not even the revelation of their horrific acts against real actual people is enough to stop antis from coddling them and even blaming their actual real life victim.
Most predators of the grooming variety will make you feel safe, they’ll lovebomb, they’ll share your interests with you or get you into theirs, they’ll be your friend, they’ll be someone you feel like you can trust, because that’s how grooming actually works. It’s slow and gradual and based on building trust so that you become compliant to what they want from you, because they’ll have made themself someone you feel like has your best interests at heart. They mold you into someone who wants to please them, no matter what.
It’s so much more insidious than “they like the Wrong fiction”, and it terrifies me that they don’t know or recognize this.