anon was blocked for…. obvious reasons. but let me explain how severely fucked-up of an ask this is to those who might not fully get it.
i am a csa survivor. i was sexually abused by my father throughout my childhood. i still have mental trauma from that, and health problems that i suspect may stem from that trauma. i'm also still forced to see my father, despite legally being an adult, and i can't tell anyone what was done to me since i have no proof. additionally, the alter who formed from that trauma is a little/syskid who can't articulate themself well, and our mother (who is also our caretaker) has fakeclaimed us about our plurality.
i am completely alone in this. and anon has essentially just told me that abuse i went through as a child is equal to a fictional ship. just because they don't like that ship.
i am a real person. these characters are not.
"but what about rpf—" it is common etiquette to not show the subject of your fanworks what you've created, because, as i've stated, these are real people. yes, rpf is fictional, and we are pro-rpf because it is fictional — but if you intentionally shove your work in the face of the person you're writing about, knowing that it could make them uncomfortable, knowing that you could be breaking boundaries, you are undeniably a horrible person.
also, rpf is usually made with good intentions. someone coming into my inbox and saying that out of pathetic spite does not have good intentions. anon is intentionally trying to harm me, and that is the difference here.
this is so genuinely sickening to me, i don't even know what else i can say.
”if somebody wrote rpf about me I’d hate it!!” “if somebody wrote rpf about me I’d feel disgusted!!” if somebody wrote rpf about ME I’d be reading it with a grin on my face like
Do u want to play on a modded Minecraft SMP and do ROLEPLAY and LORE ??!!!
Are you a system, person with DID/OSDD, plural, or person with some experience with splintered and/or multiple identities? (kin is ok if you feel you meet the criteria of splintered identity)??!!
Are you 18+ bodily ?!!
Are you:
Anti-Anti/Proship?
Pro-endo and not going to pester people about their orgins?
Not going to police people if they use "contradictory", "weird", or mircro labels, don't use the same terms you do for their experiences with their identity/identities, or have nuances to their identity/identities you don't understand?
Generally not an asshole?
Join the Multiplicity SMP!!!! https://discord.gg/hYWAmfTm9 (if the link is expired when u see this, DM me !!!)
Our first "official" session, like a scheduled one where everyone can try and play together, isn't set up yet because more people still need to join before we can all vote <3
Anti-rpf yumes feel like larpers. Ofc, if the person is uncomfortable with it then people should quit yumeshipping with them. But yumeshipping was made for people express love to their favorite idols.
The reason Panic at the disco failed where My Chemical Romance and Fall Out Boy succeeded is the lack of twink appreciation. Gerard Way and Patrick Stump both realized their respective twinks were the backbone of the band. Whereas Brendon Urie's twinks unionized and left.
