#hate asks

[tadc-crit]

How's the high horse

Well I just came back from a really fun talk with people I met through this so pretty damn good, actually! Calling out racism is a bonus too 👍🏾

[trans-masked]

you didn't say "it's weird looking." you used a terf dogwhistle.

Ok it’s rotting off and I hope he dies?

[are-u-normal-bout-transmascs]

notice how none of the links in that masterpost about transandrophobia itself as a concept are to actual books or theory and are instead links to tumblr posts. and then the actual books are about actual real transmasc oppression. interesting. it's almost as if transandrophobia isn't even a serious theory so it has to be laundered in with actual thoughts to seem legitimate

let me go call all the dead transmascs through history and ask them why they couldn't write a book about their specific issues while they were being systemically raped and abused and destransitioned for the crime of putting on pants or cutting their hair or being a bit too masculine.

let me ask the transmascs who are dying right now, everywhere, why they haven't published a damn book about how being a trans man meant society was oppressing them while being abused and mistreated and raped and forced to bear children and forced into marriage and killed for wearing pants or cutting their hair or being a bit too masculine.

right now has been the best time to be transmasc and we are still begging for people to listen us. you not listening kills us. if you need something specific to be published in order for it to be true, then you are a transphobe with no class conscious.

go to hell.

[proship-shuujuu]

anon was blocked for…. obvious reasons. but let me explain how severely fucked-up of an ask this is to those who might not fully get it.

i am a csa survivor. i was sexually abused by my father throughout my childhood. i still have mental trauma from that, and health problems that i suspect may stem from that trauma. i'm also still forced to see my father, despite legally being an adult, and i can't tell anyone what was done to me since i have no proof. additionally, the alter who formed from that trauma is a little/syskid who can't articulate themself well, and our mother (who is also our caretaker) has fakeclaimed us about our plurality.

i am completely alone in this. and anon has essentially just told me that abuse i went through as a child is equal to a fictional ship. just because they don't like that ship.

i am a real person. these characters are not.

"but what about rpf—" it is common etiquette to not show the subject of your fanworks what you've created, because, as i've stated, these are real people. yes, rpf is fictional, and we are pro-rpf because it is fictional — but if you intentionally shove your work in the face of the person you're writing about, knowing that it could make them uncomfortable, knowing that you could be breaking boundaries, you are undeniably a horrible person.

also, rpf is usually made with good intentions. someone coming into my inbox and saying that out of pathetic spite does not have good intentions. anon is intentionally trying to harm me, and that is the difference here.

this is so genuinely sickening to me, i don't even know what else i can say.

[kiyos-den]

I know that pedophiles and child predator isn't ALWAYS the same, child predators can be just opportunistic. But pedophilia is not good or something to be proud of. Also pretty sure CSAM is created by and for pedophiles, no one with undisordered sexuality searches this kind of stuff. So yeah pedophiles are still pretty fucking bad. And yeah no pedophiles aren't comparable to LGBTQ+, LGBTQ+ doesn't want your disordered attraction, LGBTQ+ are attracted to people who can consent. Also even if it's just thoughts in some cases, I would NOT want a pedophiles to look at my kid and jerk off to thinking about him. Disgusting.

hi, anonny !! this isn't a discourse blog, so kitty doesn't really care about your bad opinions, but i guess i'll answer anyway :p

child predators are very rarely MAPs. most aren't attracted to the children they prey upon, and most MAPs don't abuse children !! so, that's one thing you're wrong about :3

another thing you're wrong about - being a MAP isn't good or bad, it's morally neutral !! all attractions are !! and if MAPs want to be proud of who they are, of the hate they've shouldered from bigots like you, of the fact that they're still alive ?? then kitty supports them and thinks they should be proud !! someone survivin so much undeserved hate is really awesome actually (｡◝‿◜｡)

bein "pretty sure" isn't a certainty, so let's not act like it is !! CSAM is made to abuse and exploit children, not to cater to some imaginary audience. you're actively shifting the blame from the perpetrators to an innocent community of beings just because you don't like them !! also, havin a paraphilic disorder doesn't automatically mean that someone's searchin for abuse content !! that's ableist, but i'm not surprised (-﹏-。)

"so yeah pedophiles are still pretty fucking bad" actin as if anythin you just said holds any value,,,,, embarrassin.

and you don't speak for all queer beings, so shut your fat gob before more ignorance comes out of it !! i don't want you to embarrass yourself more, after all !!

bye anonny !! hopefully you'll grow up one day and stop bein so bigoted (ㅇㅅㅇ❀)

[foxtufts]

Stop writing rape.

If you received this message, one or more of your fics have been reported for violence.

Fix yourself and stop advocating for the rape and assault of people.

Stepping out of my enclosure because I'm disappointed to wake up to my first hate anon and isn't even good. I'm not fussed and considered removing it but I do think this needs to be said:

You are not, by any means, entitled to tell me or anybody what they can and cannot write. Especially if you're going on some puritanical rampage in the Dead Dove tags. I can tell from the "if you received this" that you 100% won't have even read anything I write. I am anti censorship and that includes protecting things I don't like to see. The point isn't supposed to be to like everything available to you or understand why somebody made it. You are not entitled to that.

Reporting fics in general, particularly ones you don't even read, doesn't make you a good person either. It only makes you a miserable loser and an absolute pillock.

Anyone who liked my darker fics can thank you though: I was going to leave some as one shots, now I'll be adding second parts to my 'rape fics' when I post again. Plus new ones.

With all due respect (which is zero) anon can suck Remmick's cum straight out of my non-consenting arsehole. Be sure to give it a lil kiss on your way out, I won't be answering more like this 💋😗

🗣 LINK TO MY MASTERLIST WHERE YOU CAN FIND ALL MY JUICY FICS 🫦

[yourlocalavian]

Hate on Social Media

“Free speech must be balanced with the ethical responsibility to prevent harm and promote respect in society.”

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Lately, there has been a lot of hate going around, especially in my mutual circle. So, me being the policy debater that I am, decided to write an entire brief on it </3

The best way to address hate is to ignore it!! Leaving hate unanswered will often cause the flames of hate to go out due to lack of kindling (repercussion).

But… just in case…

Here's some arguments (both logical and evidence based) you can use when people decide you're too cool and awesome and decide to hate on you for no apparent reason 🩷

Just please make sure to always be nice!! Hating on hate doesn't cause it to go away!!

These are just for instances where their actions have gone too far and can no longer be ignored.

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Logical based arguments (+punchlines for easy understanding lol <3)

No evidence needed, I got you boo <3

Harm Principle Argument

At its core, targeted harassment causes measurable harm - emotionally, socially, and sometimes even physically.

Speech that directly encourages harm or dehumanizes someone isn’t just “free expression,” it crosses into harmful conduct.

In debate terms: your opponent’s “it’s just words” claim collapses when those words are intended to cause distress or fear.

Punch line:

If an action predictably causes harm with no constructive benefit, it’s not defensible, it’s irresponsible.

No Legitimate Purpose Argument

Ask: what is the actual goal of the message?

It’s not criticism (no substance)

It’s not humor (no mutual enjoyment)

It’s not discussion (no engagement)

So logically, the only function is harm for the sake of harm.

They're hating just to hate, they didn't even think through their arguments.

Punch line:

Speech with zero constructive purpose and clear malicious intent has no logical defense - it fails every standard of meaningful communication.

Credibility Collapse Argument

When someone uses extreme insults or threats:

They undermine their own credibility instantly

They shift focus away from any potential point (if they even had one) and all insecurities they have.

They hate to feel better about themselves. That leaves their character completely incredible.

Punch line:

The moment someone resorts to harassment, they forfeit being taken seriously - by definition, their argument loses weight.

Accountability vs. Anonymity Argument (this is my favorite lol)

Most hate messages rely on anonymity or distance.

If the speaker wouldn’t say it face-to-face, that reveals awareness that the behavior is unacceptable (<- i love this one sm)

That’s an implicit admission of wrongdoing

Punch line:

Hiding behind a screen doesn’t justify behavior, it proves the speaker knows it’s wrong.

False “Free Speech” Defense Refutation

People LOVE to hide behind this, so shut it down cleanly:

Free speech protects from government censorship, not from social consequences

Communities (and individuals) are allowed to reject harmful behavior

Punch line:

Freedom of speech does NOT equal freedom from consequences or criticism. Aka you're allowed to defend yourself from harmful speech <3

Inefficiency / Waste Argument (lowkey underrated but powerful loll)

This kind of behavior contributes nothing of value:

No ideas

No solutions

No meaningful interaction

Punch line:

Engaging in harassment is not just harmful - it’s intellectually empty and a waste of time that could be used productively.

Psychological Projection Argument (use carefully but it hits - look down below for actually evidence from articles talking about this)

Often, this kind of extreme hostility reflects internal issues:

Anger, insecurity, need for control/attention

(BUT phrase it logically, not insultingly!)

Punch line:

Unprovoked hostility often reveals more about the speaker’s internal state than the target’s worth.

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Evidence based Arguments:

Why do people send hate?

Here are some pieces of evidence to kinda help you understand what's going through their brain.

This is purely to help educate YOU and help you to realize that you are not the problem!! Not to be used against them!

(Bolded parts are the important parts, and the links to all of the articles are listed after the quote)

Desire of attention due to Insecurities

Dave Chamberlin on November 9, 2023 writes:

In the area of online interactions where anonymity often prevails, individuals may succumb to a range of psychological maladjustments that embolden them to engage in the posting of hateful comments. This behavior stems from deep-rooted insecurities, unmet emotional needs, and a desire for power and attention. The digital environment allows these individuals to shed their inhibitions and exhibit maladaptive behaviors that they may not display in face-to-face interactions. These people feel shielded by the virtual world and the perceived absence of consequences for their actions.

https://havokjournal.com/media/the-psychology-behind-social-media-hate/

Feelings of inadequacy

Dave Chamberlin on November 9, 2023 writes:

Hateful comments are often rooted in feelings of inadequacy and a need to assert dominance. These people are often seeking to compensate for personal shortcomings by denigrating others, holding onto the belief that tearing others down will elevate their own self-esteem.

https://havokjournal.com/media/the-psychology-behind-social-media-hate/

Concealing unhappiness

Courtanae Heslop on May 1, 2023 writes:

People leave hate comments on social media for a variety of reasons, according to social media experts. Some do it to attract attention, others to feel powerful, and still others to conceal their own insecurities. However, at the heart of all of these reasons is a deep sense of dissatisfaction and unhappiness.

https://medium.com/@courtanaeheslop/why-do-people-leave-hate-comments-is-there-a-deeper-meaning-beneath-the-hate-dbbf02b4dfa1

Lack of repercussions

Courtanae Heslop on May 1, 2023 writes:

As social media grew in popularity, it became a platform for people to express their thoughts and feelings. However, this has made it easier for people to leave hateful comments anonymously. Because they can say whatever they want without fear of repercussions, people often feel empowered by their anonymity.

https://medium.com/@courtanaeheslop/why-do-people-leave-hate-comments-is-there-a-deeper-meaning-beneath-the-hate-dbbf02b4dfa1

Need for control

Courtanae Heslop on May 1, 2023 writes:

Psychologists have also discovered that people who post hateful comments frequently have a need for control. They believe they have control over the conversation and can tell others how they should think and feel. This is frequently related to feelings of inadequacy or a lack of control in other aspects of their lives.

https://medium.com/@courtanaeheslop/why-do-people-leave-hate-comments-is-there-a-deeper-meaning-beneath-the-hate-dbbf02b4dfa1

Psychologists find…

Monica Vilhauer Ph.D. on February 10, 2026 writes:

Psychology offers several explanations for this behavior. One key factor is the concept of online disinhibition. Behind the screen, people often feel anonymous and removed from the immediate consequences of their actions. This sense of invisibility can embolden individuals to express opinions or emotions they would otherwise suppress. The lack of direct feedback—such as seeing someone's reaction—also reduces empathy and increases the likelihood of harsh or hurtful language. Additionally, the physical distance and absence of social cues can further diminish personal accountability, making it easier for users to detach from the emotional impact their words may have on others.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/recasting-reality/202602/the-hate-behind-the-screen

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Lmk if anything needs to be changed!

Use this responsibly please!!

Do not hate just to hate!

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Why did i do this again-

Oh right

@lunathetunaaa I did itttttt :D