It is MAJORLY fucked-up to me, and pisses me off, how in both the SPN fandom and the canon show, monsters/non-humans/part-humans/supernatural-humans basically have to “earn” the right to not be killed, and the right to be treated somewhat like people, by doing one of the following:
Liking Hunters
Allying with Hunters
Befriending a Hunter, seeing them as “family”, or otherwise having a platonic relationship with a Hunter
Dating, marrying, or otherwise being in a romantic and/or sexual relationship with a Hunter
Working with, researching for, giving advice to, healing/patching up, or otherwise helping Hunters with their “work”
Owning/running a bar, library, medical clinic, or other “shelter”, “hangout” or “safe place” for Hunters
Being a Hunter themselves and going around slaughtering their own kind
Being raised by Hunters and/or having Hunter parents, especially if they go into the “family business” once they grow up
Or otherwise being affiliated with the Hunters’ and/or on their side in some way.
I just think the idea of someone having to “earn” being treated like a person is fucked up! And the fact that the thing the monsters have to do to “earn” that is siding with/befriending/helping the ones that oppress and kill their kind makes it a whole nother level of fucked up!