some thoughts on frontier 2.04
So profoundlysweetcrusade very nicely asks me my thoughts on this show, so here we are. And ofc, we’re talking about Harp and Grace.
I think my overriding thoughts are that Grace never does what I expect her to. Any other show, when Harp asks if she married Chesterfield for him, our ‘strong female lead’ might say it was for business reasons also, which in a way it was. But not Grace. She admits he was her first thought, that it was her choice and her decision to protect someone she loved.
I love this because she’s strong but she’s allowed to have her emotions. She’s not ashamed of them. She’s always honest about how she feels about the other characters (apart from when she’s scheming of course.) She doesn’t hide her disdain for Chesterfield even when it might help her, and she doesn’t hide her love for Harp despite the fact he constantly tells her they won’t work. And the narrative places her in the right. She saved him. She’s never made out to be a lovesick fool. She’s allowed to make her own choices and have her own reasons without being ridiculed for it. She’s strong enough to admit her own feelings even when she’s worried they aren’t reciprocated because they are hers and she doesn’t apologise for them.
I think it’s also interesting that she’s sort of the ‘man’ in this situation. What I mean is, in every other show we have men doing dumb things or sacrificing themselves in order to save their female significant other and it’s seen as heroic. With Grace it’s done in a different way since she always knew she wouldn’t stay married to Chesterfield, and would have been planning on finding a way out of it as soon as she agreed to it. I feel like when the men are in the same situation they don’t really give their plans the same amount of thought.
Also I think Harps phrase was interesting when he said he didn’t want Grace to have taken on his life like that. He didn’t really mention the fact of her marrying rather than her being responsible for him. I just wonder if he’s supressing his feelings over her marrying Chesterfield and turning it into ‘I don’t want us to be responsible for each other’. He was willing to drag her into his shit in s1, but as soon as it comes to her doing things because she loves him he steps back from it (sidenote: this girl has saved his actual life literally like 5 times now). I think this is because he loves her but honestly thinks he’s a) going to get killed in a fight or b) get killed by the law when he has his revenge or c) go on the run forever because, well, he’s a wanted fugitive. Basically he tells Grace ‘I’m not a safe life for you’ because he feels he has no real kind of life to offer her, so he hates when love comes into the mix because he can’t be who she needs him to be/who he wants to be till all this is done.
other than that basically I loved their entire reunion and i loved her saving him yet again. (also: “I thought I’d never see you again.” “I never thought that.” JUST KILL ME)