#project men

[thugguzzler]

Maybe Because Momma Spiked The Similac With Tabasco and Clear?

Dunno.....

[youvecapturedmyattention]

How about No. S/o to the women who were generous and kind enough in their heart to donate their time whether it be seconds, minutes, hours, weeks, months, or years. Dedicating their time to project boys. Yes, boys not men. Raising and treating them just like you were their mother because you didn’t realize that you signed up for a nanny job instead of a relationship. Because that’s what these boys act like children. They are immature. The women who put their all into boys who never gave his all to you, because he is always too occupied with himself. Boys who weren’t mature enough to be in a relationship because they were too busy and lazy in a rut to find themselves or grow up. To the women who waited for their boys to go somewhere in their “progress” but you’re still in the same shit. To the women who had faith and love in their heart to hope that their boy would get his act together, so they can be an equal relationship, even though it never happened. Males that are in progress are boys. Males that have their life together and don’t need to rely on a woman to raise their lazy ass are men. Too many good women fall for this (I myself with both of my long term relationships adding the years together is six years. That’s half a decade wasted) and spend years of their life in emotional term oil from these in process boys. Then, when you’re out of these relationships you’re so frustrated with the idea of being with anyone else because you’re afraid the next one will turn out to be exactly the same. They want a mother, not a girlfriend. A maid, not a partner. A servant, not an equal. Don’t confuse these, as you need us for as the title of “girlfriend”. I’m not your maid, your mother, or servant. Don’t get confused. It’s sexist and trying to put me into a motherly role when I asked for a partnership. The fact that these men are asking for this stuff from us only shows they don’t know what a relationship is. They think a relationship is just a woman doing stuff for them and that’s it. This is wrong. There is NO partnership with a women put together and a man you gotta pull to keep up. Don’t do project men, ladies. Don’t do project women, gentleman. Don’t do project women, ladies. Don’t do project men, gentleman. Whatever you you go for. These people need to be single and figure out their mommy/daddy issues, I promise you you’ll only waste your heart, money, and time. Make sure that person has their shit together and is on the life track they want. Or you’re hurting yourself and accepting their lazy dependence. Don’t extend your heart and generosity at the expense of your emotional state. Take it from me. Rant fucking over.

[alwaysseekingmyhappyending]

The Helper..

I have wondered if I am one of those people who loves to solve everyone else's life problems. The course guy gets made redundant. I sit there for 3.5 hours last night and help him re-write personal statements and applications. I did this with the ex years ago: now he's on more money than me.. Fail.