#psa posts

[clownsuu]

PSA Post cw: self endangerment

Hey guys something kinda outside of my normal posting-

Mental health is a serious serious thing that always should be checked out and is just as important as your physical health. If you ever feel hopeless or just feel you're in your lowest points in life it's always best to seek medical help from a professional.

If you are experiencing deep depression and/or other serious issues, please do not send strangers on the internet that you care about vague messages of your possible passing/personal harm and please contact your country/state's suicide prevention hotline or contact someone close to immediately receive support. Please stay safe, you're not alone.

[vxndictive]

//Alright, to add up a bit on the previous post:

I’ve honestly been wanting to remake Flayn from scratch for a while. I’m not really dissatisfied or anything with her, but i do feel i could do a lot better than what i have currently. 

The base concepts (Her usual personality, Dranna, etc) will remain, but i’m gonna be introducing a lot of changes to her backstory and even her looks. You’ll see what i mean sooner or later. Being back on Final Fantasy XIV has given me a lot of new ideas i want to explore but can’t because i sorta wrote myself into a corner with her.

Am i gonna be resetting the blog completely? Most likely not, we’ll see. But things are coming soon.

[thataspdfeel-blog]

hey everyone! i updated the layout.  i didn’t change much,  just the icon and edited the header so it was slightly less messy, and slightly altered the colours to a lighter, more pleasant blue.  i had trouble reading the previous blue tbh, it was a little grey/dark for me, and lighter blues tend to work with those with processing disorders.

i couldn’t figure out how to change the colour the links are when hovering - i don’t know about anyone else but this is really bad for my disorganized, adhd brain.  i looked through the code but realized it’d take a while to pinpoint where to add it, so i’ll do it later.

i might also update the FAQ later, with vann’s help, of course.

anyway, here’s the new layout, just hover to see the header/etc. and left click to go to the page: @thataspdfeel

- mod alex

[thataspdfeel-blog]

okay, i’m going to make a psa.  i don’t know about vann, but i want to clarify:

i am not here to validate your toxic, abusive, and parasitic behaviour, whether it’s related to antisocial personality disorder or not.

i am not here to further support and encourage the idea that being abusive and having antisocial personality disorder are automatically the same thing.

i am not going to pretend that i am some saint, that i’ve never engaged in toxic, abusive, and parasitic behaviour.  i think that is where a lot of my perspective comes from, and that must be understood.  i was a drug addict, and involved in various criminal/illegal activities for many years.  i was awful to people, and i engaged in terrible behaviour.

did my antisocial personality disorder contribute? did it affect how i acted? yes, it absolutely did.  it was distinct from other drug addicts i knew.  my symptoms were assets for that kind of environment.  i’ve been in recovery for two years.  completely unrelated to drugs, i will admit, i struggle with behaviour that is not good.  just because it’s related to my disorders doesn’t automatically make it okay.

i will not encourage or support or validate that kind of thing.  it’s not about saying symptoms are inherently abusive. it’s not about “social justice” or trying to “appear good”.  it’s about saying “hey, i think this is fucked up, and i want to point that out to you/explain that to you”.

i realize some people may not understand where i’m coming from.  but learning and understanding my symptoms, what abusive/toxic/parasitic behaviour was (and if i engaged in it), detrimental behaviour (to myself and others), as well as how to re-direct that behaviour is something that is important to me.  it took, and still takes, a lot of introspection, as well as work. it took many years for me to get to this point -  i am almost 27 years old.

and that is what i want to encourage.  that is what i want to support.  so no, i’m not going to tell you all your behaviour is Okay just because it may or may not have to do with your disorder.

end of discussion.

- mod alex

[comtenomore-blog]

PSA:      If you ever write me a starter and I don't reply, please feel free to check in with me about it.  My tag is a lazy quitter that often breaks on me for no good reason (save what I presume is a slightly malicious sense of whimsy), and it's likely that I didn't see it on the dash.  I'm totally cool with you popping in to see if I saw it if it looks like I might have missed it.

[sourcedk-project]

Friendly reminder that we really, really do not want you guys to reblog any artwork by MEOWKEY even if we do source it - they've stated multiple times in the past that they do not want their artwork reposted anywhere (and it's worth noting that they have deleted everything off their pixiv). 

[sourcedk-project]

Do not edit other people's gifs. When you do this, you're making yourself look like an asshole because they put time and effort into creating it - all you did was slap some text on it.

And we can't source it because your lovely edit is blocking the watermarks and preventing us from using a reverse image search to locate the original. 

[sourcedk-project]

This is a list of Pixiv artist that have stated they do not want their artwork reposted. If you know of a artist that is not on the list, please contact me and I'll add them!

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高槻Ｂ@尊猿厨

seo

堅

佃戸

みくに

Ｋ子

りんた

ひらまつ

紫@10/14G27

浅井西

61

いふ

せいあー

ユイラギ

tsukasa

遥馬

ユポポ

雪見

皐月空

塩こんぶDX

ゆん

マサムネ **

あわわ

キョ

** according to their profile they may allow repost if you ask them first