#psa tag

[immobiliter]

also with some of my beloved oldies making a return to tumblr, i just want to throw it out there that there is never an expiry date on any of my interactions or dynamics. if we don't write a ship for three years and then you make a return and want to pick up where we left off ? perfectly fine with me ! if you want to return to our plotting a year down the line ? also fine ! nothing is ever officially dropped with me, only ever put on pause. we all have busy lives that get in the way of our hobbies and when i say i am chill about that sort of thing, i really do mean it

[reallyprofoundkryptonite]

As like a general reminder, if you find things in my art/work i make hot and/or sexy etc please keep it to yourself. As an asexual I’d rather not know what you’d want to do to my aus or whatever since they are essentially extensions of me and my own psyche. It genuinely makes me incredibly uncomfortable in my own skin.

I’m not mad at anyone, this is just a general PSA I’m putting out there as a general rule of thumb.

Since there’s a lot of people who might be new, this is just a reminder since there’s been a recent influx of weirdos in my inbox and I want people to know this. (I’m not posting the screenshots because generally I don’t want to give them attention.)

[feyras]

just a reminder that my activity may dip again for a week or two . nothing terribly but i'm still doing some hardcore studying leading up to my boards . so i'm not ignoring anyone intentionally to be a jerk , i'm just gonna be busy !

[wcrldcfvtlvsarchive]

One thing I will ALWAYS stand on business on is having a safe space for yourself and writing. As someone who had a very real reality check because I was the God damn problem, having a safe dash/TL is so important because all it takes is one person to ruin everything you wanted to do, everything you had planned, and kill a muse that you put your heart and soul into.

It honestly makes me sick that some incel of a man is deadass harassing women/women presenting writers into threads that NO ONE wants to write, let alone snake your way into someone's life and get them to trust you only be a complete monster because someone told you no???? Get the FUCK outta my lobby bro.

Tumblr is suppose to be hobby, something fun that a bunch of people from all over the world decided to do to connect, bond, and make memories. I know that callout culture is a taboo subject, i don't really like them myself but when a known predator is literally pulling a Wolf in Sheep's Clothing act? I'm sorry but not sorry, I'm sure as fuck gonna spread awareness about it. Other than my love for writing both canon and oc, my biggest and number 1 priority is making sure yall are safe and secure.

I'd hate to see my friends/potential friends/future writing partners get abused, used and mistreated bc some jackass behind the screen didn't get the smut he wanted and then just decides to traumatize people.

Anyway, I'm done on my soap box. Yall be safe, yall have fun, and if anyone fucks with you, do what you gotta do to keep yourself safe and sane. At the end of the day nothing else matters but your mental and emotional health.

[daecaerys]

PSA. so i have been rping on tumblr since 2017 with ups and downs and really never had any problems, but one thing i noticed is that whenever i write a canon character there's this very awkward moment in replies where people assume things about the portrayal based on their comprehension about said character. it happens with me, too, but i'm trying to police it more and more. mistakes happen, especially with an universe like asoiaf. but please, assume things about my dany (which is fine sometimes, ok? like. i don't expect anynone to actually read EVERY TAKE i post on this silly blog) but don't try to correct me through threads. i am not writing your vision here, or grrm's. this is my interpretation and on rp there is no right or wrong about any character/universe unless it harms and triggers people. i may dislike a character you like, for example, but adore and write with your version of them (this happens with alicent for example. i dont like hotd alicent at all but am more than happy to write w blogs based on that and actually love them! as it happens frequently, alicent blogs ily) aaand this doesnt give me the right to constantly bash alicent on threads through dany/inner self, or use it as a escaping moment to push my opinions of her to you and especially towards your portrayal. thats just rude lol

so um yeah basically this is me saying plotting is cool to find a middle ground and ooc talk too <3

[lovebiteclub]

GIVE 👏🏻 BOYS 👏🏻 ROMANTIC 👏🏻 PHYSICAL 👏🏻 AFFECTION 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW MANY GUYS I HAVE BEEN WITH OR TALKED TO THAT SAY THEY HAVE NEVER HAD SOMEONE HOLD THEM OR KISS THEIR FOREHEADS OR PLAY WITH THEIR HAIR. I HAVE HAD A BOY BREAK DOWN IN FRONT OF ME BECAUSE I HELD HIM TO MY CHEST AS HE GOT SLEEPY AND HE HADNT EVER HAD SOMEONE HOLD HIM LIKE THAT !!!!! THIS IS NOT RIGHT !!!!! BOYS DESERVE PHYSICAL AFFECTION JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE AND NOT JUST IN A SEXUAL WAY !!!!!!!!!!! THEY DESERVE TO FEEL LOVED AND CARED FOR JUST LIKE THE LADIES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[cosmicjest]

FYI I’ll be traveling literally all day tomorrow (8/18) so I won’t be active unless I work on drafts on the plane or something. I’m flying to new mexico to go to a wedding & im coming back Tuesday (8/22). I’m sure I’ll be around a little when I have downtime, but not too much bc we’ll be doing wedding stuff and at some point I’m seeing barbie w. my sister.

Hope everyone has a great weekend! 💞

[battling-my-demons]

This summer if you see a big girl wearing a croptop ✨mind your business ✨

If you see a girl not wearing a bra ✨mind your business ✨

If a girl doesn't fit your definition of sexy or beautiful because she is too skinny or too "fat" don't say shit. Simply ✨mind your business ✨

We are NOT body shaming this summer. We will NOT tell the bigger girl to cover up or the skinny girl to go eat a cheeseburger! We will NOT be told we are sluts for showing skin!! It is summer and baby we deserve to feel comfortable in our own skin.😘✨❤️