just wanted to say that no matter what happens and who says dumb shit to you, there'll always be some ppl who love you.
this message is to address this know toxic growing community on tumblr :(
friends become your found family but not everyone that speaks to you becomes a friend.
listen to them and believe them only if you value their opinion. if you don't trust them and know that they don't know shit about you, why should you believe them when they talk shit about you?
just try to ignore them. i know its hard but focus on the ppl you love. it doesn't even have to be on tumblr. get off your screen and even spend time with your family or friends or colleagues.
p.s. i reposted this in both your inbox and on various blrs because i think this is important to address.
this isn't to scare you, but has been going around in enhablr. some users have been posting very hateful messages in ppls inboxes.
hii kims, thank you for your thoughtful message! it means a lot to me that you're looking out for me 💜
yes I've had my share of weird messages from anons and that's the reason I completely turned off "anon asks" and fortunately it stopped and my mental health here is at peace
we're literally fanfic writers that write about our favourite people and invest so much time and love into feeding these shared fantasies (for free), so I never get why would anyone sent unnecessarily mean things to us... like make it make sense?!
I want to send love to all the other authors who went through this and I hope whoever sends these kinda anon messages will stop because although we won't ever know it was you but universe has a way to balance things and you'll get the karma eventually so why not send positive stuff so that positive karma happens to you?