Mr Intentional Pt. 1
So Ladies...
Now I can't say that I have had ample amounts of experience with the opposite sex, but from my acute, very interesting select few, there is one discussion that really get's me going.
For anyone who is not aware of Lauryn Hill's Unplugged album, I suggest you go ahead NOW & take a listen to her divine art, for it is more than a source of emotive sounds and melodies, it is literally an artists expression of knowledge, wisdom and love through her own experience and observation. It's a masterpiece in all it's unrefined, true, exposing creative glory. Haven't heard or seen anything as enlightening, beautiful, timeless and honest in a hella long time; despite the series of amazing artists out there:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2bDEreEbPE
anyway.
So, keep on reading if you can relate to having that one guy in which you invested way more than was healthy by the standards of then, now and...well, forever, or if you can relate to having that guy that despite how many ills he committed in your "committed" relationship, there was a constant necessity to remind you of how much they did (or do) for you as their main counter argument in a discussion regarding your feelings & how they've gone about to upset you, or perhaps, that one person who; in discussion with yourself, a family member or a friend about that guy- the chorus: "he isn't that bad" or "but he is so..." followed by the verses of tears, self-doubt, confusion, anger, insecurity, frustration all sourced from his actions or words towards you, or lastly, the dude that always has things his way and when it's your way, it is only allowed because, thank heavens for you, it is aligned with his way- giving you the illusion of freedom in the relationship.
If you can't relate, then it's a relief to know that not everyone encounters this guy. you may stop here & continue to listen to Hill's album.
But for those of you who can sense a level of relation to that list above, I'll tell you something. Now, the list can go on, you know this, I know this and in knowing this, I don't think it's really necessary that I must continue to rant about the prevalent characteristic traits that exists in such men & their actions towards women with an o-so-cute level of naivety; but a heart of gold, that can make us a prey to bugs-bunny. but rather, this is a suggestive, loving, imploring message to those women, and young girls soon to be women letting you know that life really begins at such an experience.
That experience where you encounter something that breaks you down to the core pieces of your soul- to the point where you may actually feel like a simple set of bones, muscle and blood with little flowing in and out of your mind or creative spirit; That's the exact point where the significant, most prosperous seeds may be planted in your life & you will continue to reap from that specific harvest among the many more seeds you'll occasionally plant and watch grow throughout your life. But these particular seeds, no matter what happens to the other seeds you plant, these ones will be your source of soulful, emotional, mental and physical self sufficiency; but only if you plant it first.
So, join moi on this Mr intentional journey to uncover why you should not allow your mind to be consumed by someone who probably doesn't think about you & when they do, they're just feeding off how weak they made you, how much they enjoyed knowing that someone could love them and be so distraught by their exit from your life that you crumbled etc, etc....!
That lil paragraph right thee is an example as to why you shouldn’t let your mind be consumed by them. It’s a waste of space! (maybe a good 50 words just trying to get into their head?)
Let's not allow ourselves to try to assume what thoughts they may or may not have; good or bad. Let's focus on your thoughts, your path, your goals, your dreams, your soul- how broken it may be & how we can plan ahead to heal it & make it more resilient and stronger than ever before














