#queer question

[crows-mogai-abyss]

My fellow intersex peeps, Id love to hear your experiences with being intersex, any variant, be it ur symptoms, your experiences both good and had, if ur queer then how being intersex affects ur identity, i write tons and tons of characters, and id like to explore more intersex characters than the ones i already have, i wanna make ppl feel seen :3

[ostriches-because-i-said-so]

the consensive I've seen in most places is that demi-boys can't be lesbians, while I personally don't see why not because in my opinion they're just labels and whatever people feel comfortable with is how they should label themselves, I do raise you...

Can a lesbian romantically/sexually like a demi-boy

yes

no

it's complicated + ratio

Voting ended onFeb 19, 2025

[vnknowcrow]

Awhile back, I saw a post that was like "to be a trans ally, you need to get rid of the idea that a woman would be more likely to be attacked walking late at night then a man because that's transphobic" and I just, didn't really get it? Isn't that just like a, statistically backed opinion that a feminine presenting person is more likely to be sexually,physical or verbally attacked? Genuine question as a person who's just trying to understand

[kintsugi-my-soul]

Question for Aspecs

Hey, I have a question for any aros, aces, aroaces, and anyone on the aro & ace spectrums.

For a bit of background, I’m greyace and aro. Recently, I’ve been feeling this strong desire to be close to a new friend. I want to be near them, to cuddle, to hold them. Basically, anything but sexual and romantic attraction. It feels like my physical/sensual attraction has been turned up to max. I’ve never felt such a strong desire to be near or close to someone. I usually don’t feel much sensual attraction and so this is very confusing.

So overall, has anyone experienced this heighten physical/sensual attraction before? Is this what characterizes a QRP? Does anyone have any thoughts?

@aspec-is-amazing

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@arosuggestions

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@arodabi

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[smugraccoon137]

What's a funny gender queer thing you did as a kid/teen?

I'll go first. I would bake in just a sports bra and shorts. And I'd wrap a scarf around my head like a pirate.

[fluffycity]

i have a question for transfems, specifically!!!

so i know the use of the term femboy has been used derogatorily towards transfems. as far as i know (and i could be wrong), it isn't used as often anymore.

so i guess my question(s) is,,,

if it isn't used anymore in reference to transfems, and if transfems are ok with it, why is it a bad term to use if you're a man/masc

wouldn't it be good to begin using it for men/masc people so that it loses its original meaning, and can't be harmful anymore?

thank you in advance!!!! if you're transmasc or a man please dont respond to this, i wanna hear from transfems specifically rn :>

if any transfems feel comfortable responding that would be lovely!!!!!

[notsus]

ace-spec (?)

Does anyone know if it's possible to experience sexual attraction but not to physical features? like being attracted to someone because of their actions? im probably not demiromantic, since I've been attracted to people I don't know (at least, im fairly sure)