so you know how we have the word queerplatonic to describe a relationship that's not necessarily platonic or romantic, but somewhere in between that can have traits of either or both relationship style?
my qpp and I were talking (we're both ace) and... thought it might be neat to have a sexual equivalent. we came up with queersensual, which is meant to describe actions that lie between sensual and sexual, that can have traits of either type of touch. so things that are typically understood to be "sexual" could be done in more of a "sensual" way, like touching breasts or nipples or butts. kind of in the same way as you could have a queerplatonic date (things usually seen as romantic like buying chocolate or going to the movies or feeding each other spoonfuls of cake), we've decided that it's also possible to have queersensual sexual interactions.
anyway i really liked the word and I thought this would be a good place to share it :)
