As a queer person, I say
BE WEIRD (affectionate <33) (as in EMBRACE YOUR QUEER ASF SILLY!!!)
But also
Don’t be weird (derogatory) (as in don’t judge others for how they present themselves and their queerness. Don’t be a party pooper mate, oh and also stop sounding like your bigoted parents when you’re doing it. Otherwise you’re bringing the mood down at the queer party. Just let others be who they are, they’re not hurting anyone just for being who they are. Ok? Thank you <33) (oh and also don’t queervestigate and transvestigate actual real people that’s actually weird and uhh you don’t have the right to judge people just cuz they “don’t look queer” enough like PLEASE DON’T. Remember Kit Connor? Yeah don’t do a Kit Connor mate, please don’t and uhh do better things with your life, like idk touch grass or smth. Again, thank you <33)
TL;DR : Treat others like you want to be treated ❤️, also uhh FUCK THE BIGOTS!!!!