#ramtops-witch

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Saying 'connected component' is like saying 'round circle.'

Graph theory professor on pet peeves

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ramtops-witch replied to your post: I think sometimes I hold people at arm...

To a way lesser degree I’ve definitely got an issue with that too

It's pretty severe for me but even lesser degrees of it can have a big impact. I hope you don't have too many obstacles in processing it and dealing with the root causes <3

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Grey.

Grey : Two facts about my favourite things

1. It's actually not rude to eat it with your fingers I hear. (Sushi.)

2. Idk any cool music facts. Which in itself is a fact about my favourite music.

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ramtops-witch replied to your post “ramtops-witch replied to your post “do you think it’s...”

And on top of that I'm really really not believing the idea that bodily dysphoria is entirely a learned thing. /Massively/ influenced by learned shame yeah, but not only that.

Well there's a whole bunch of different types of dysphoria and dysphorias with different causes and it all covers the gamut so... yeah

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ramtops-witch replied to your post “do you think it's transmisogynistic or cissexist if a trans women wants a vagina?”

I'm really disgusting sick of trans theory that tends to wink and nudge about how surgeries are something that's Letting The Side Down because we just need to Love Ourselves.

yeah fuck that. Guilting people for surviving is absurd.

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ramtops-witch replied to your post:Tbh I don’t really like sex all that much or all...

I used to think I was ace or grey-ace but I figured out it was just dysphoria + coping tactics.

Yeah

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ramtops-witch replied to your post:"shrimpdick" isn't some kind of an epidemic but it's definitely tossed around a lot more often/casually than I'm comfortable seeing (moreso the cis people jumping that bandwagon but regardless)

I haven’t seen it regularly but like half the times I’ve seen trans women use it were cases that (seemed) to be not a response to a stalker/harasser.

Some of the cases were blowback after the fact, when the stalking was in previous posts and stuff.

I mean it's not inconceivable that there are trans women out there using it as standard operating procedure and that's pretty ugh and gross (not oppressive though because again trans women don't have the social capital to oppress trans men on the basis of transphobia or patriarchal stuff) but I really haven't seen it and it seems like everyone else has seen very little of it if any

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"shrimpdick" isn't some kind of an epidemic but it's definitely tossed around a lot more often/casually than I'm comfortable seeing (moreso the cis people jumping that bandwagon but regardless)

Yeah I've seen a few cis people and cafab trans people yank it out and that's unacceptable as fuck. I just keep seeing people exclusively going after trans women for it and it's actually been a really tiny minority of stalking victim trans women who fought back?

Like for the most part I just haven't seen trans women using that phrasing as a regular thing.