So yesterday I got into a car crash. Thankfully it was solo and nobody else was involved, a mixture of road conditions and a bad tire that wasn't noticed by the mechanic who saw my car two months ago, my car spun out twice and slammed into an embankment. My car wasn't too damaged, but I am in immense pain with whiplash, pain all down my spine, my shoulders, my ankle, my elbows and I hit my head so that's owwie. I have been checked over by paramedics and a mix of refusing to go to hospital and them going 'nothing looks broken' means I was sent home to rest and relax and make liberal use of my pain meds.
Even so, I still intended to take my mum to the hospital like I agreed today. She refused - not because I'm in pain (she made it quite clear she didn't give a fuck about that), but because I'm clearly a terrible driver (like she's never crashed).
I then got to listen to her make out how I'd only done this to inconvenience her (despite me still offering to take her), and how she was going to have to get the bus and it was all my fault. I snapped a bit and asked what about all those friends she supposedly has who are apparently much better than me (as she frequently rubs in my face). I even offered one of MY friends who early on told me if I needed help getting my mum to hospital, he'd help. She refused that too.
So now I'm a bad, evil horrible person for trying to fix the situation any way possible despite being in a lot of pain. I'm just so fricking frustrated like literally, what more could I have done?