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I really can't stop comparing myself to this other girl and I feel really shitty. I don't know what to do.

So what you have to realize is that most humans hide their flaws really well. This other girl might seem like she’s better than you but the truth is that probably 98% of humans are some level of terrible and you’re a lot better than a lot of other people because some people, say, are murderers. See! You’re doing amazing.

but for real, you’re your own person and Deserve to be loved and respected by your own merit, and the only thing you can do to “improve” beyond your normal state of badassery is choose to let your desire to be a good human motivate you towards working hard on things you like, or learning all the things you can, or getting healthy and badass and able to fight things.

and /I/ love you no matter who you are. So there.

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ten people you met this year who have inspired you / changed your opinion on something / given you something new to think about etc

In the past year: @newageoldprose,  @compatibleinsanity, @sensible-goblin-lady, <– her S.O. Sophia (Who technically I met last year but we never really talked), @girlunscripted,(<– who i also met a month more than a year ago but i want it to count so it does) @mirandaisacactus, @adeadpoet, @slamfancy, Hannah Poston (http://www.hannahlouiseposton.com/), Melissa Faliveno (staff of http://www.pw.org/), and tons of others. This past year’s been insane in a lot of ways. 

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I've only saw your bits and pieces about the "fuckwaffle" (dying at that), and im baffled. Truly. Part of me wants to know the story because I literally can't comprehend what the actual fuck that was and why the hell it happened to your beautiful soul.

So i liked this guy, he and his friend both liked me but they decided (without asking my opinion) that neither of them would date me because they didn’t want to ruin their friendship (?????!!??). About a week after that, fuckwaffle asks me if I want to start seeing him under the radar of the friend. Because I was pissed that I hadn’t been involved in the original decision and because i was (idiotically) infatuated with said fuckwaffle (also he brought me roses that he’d picked himself and played me pretty guitar tunes), I was like Hellz Yeah so we went about seeing each other (often under the cover of night. and blankets) for several months. 

Then he was like “yeah my counsellor says that for the sake of my depression i should stop seeing you” and I was like ?? “ok depression is a legitimate thing and if I’m contributing to that then i should step away and let you live?” 

and he was like “cool beans” and then a week later was in a fb official relationship with a lady (who i have since learned is super nice) but i was full of rage and sadness (also i was almost failing french at the time and a myriad of other issues and was already depressed) and then the story came out that his counsellor had basically told him no such thing and the lady friend was the reason and there was drama but I’m over that shit now bc he’s, as stated, a colossal shit-hat.

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What are some of your favorite outfits, or clothing you like for day to day wear. Pictures of your own, or ones you want and what you would pair with them? I see you share the bralettes all the time, I love them.

I have 3 pairs of pants that i wear. all of my leggings have worn out so they have too many holes in them to be worn in public so now i have a pair of gray joggers, a gray pair of yoga pants, and a pair of jeans that fit okay-ish. a fashion plate I am not. 

I love the bralettes though, and I like semi-boho stuff and what I call apocalypse gear and would dress to the nines as an artist hermit if i could :) maybe I’ll start running a side blog that’s a wardrobe wishlist :)

(I also keep an aesthetic tag which is mostly places right now but generally has clothes in it as well)

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What nirvana songs do you like??What other grunge/punk/rock bands do you like?

I like the mainstream ones lol like come as you are and lithium and teen spirit, polly’s also good, and dumb. 

I oddly ignorant about what genre labels mean, actually. I like the strokes? and the who and the clash? I DONT KNOW WHAT GRUNGE OR PUNK IS IM SORRY

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Thrilled to hear that it wasn't about the same boy that your 'today I lay on the floor" poem was about because fuck that guy.

I like to think that he was just unintelligent but yeah he was pretty much a fuckwaffle

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Well? Tell us about her!

talented, artsy, blonde, v cute, v supportive, v funny

:) more later if it sticks, don’t want to push my luck rn