#rantish???

[white-pin-is-real]

more of valley’s ramblings (and potential ethic debates with myself) aw yeah 🔥

i feel like i LIVE by fairness i dont know why but i genuinely cant stand (in the sense that its so fucking overwhelming to me because punishment is literally a death sentence in my eyes) getting berated or punished for something feels 10x worse when you were never apart of it

main reason why i fucking HATED my 4th grade teacher. oh my god this man would punish everyone no matter who caused it and it isnt fair and i could never accept that (and i still havent). there’s times where its reasonable why everyone would be punished (ex. whoever being responsible being anonymous) and yet it still hurts so much to me mentally

its like my brain will default to sobbing until i get what i want like a toddler when theres an imbalance in treatment and it is AWFUL/neg. i dont know why i act like this and i dont want to act like this and yet i still don’t understand why people hate me when all i do is be the smart one and throw tantrums because things don’t go to plan. fucking hell

i dont know if its just because i have a really strict moral code and i stand by it like my life depends on it or if im just a stupid baby who can’t understand a basic life lesson i should’ve learned so many years ago. not everything in life is fair and i NEED to accept that to make it in society?? if i do im NOT making it 😂😂

[nikkoleura-blog]

Holy Doodles

Are people really throwing a fit over other people liking this new OVA??? Like, I haven’t seen anything personally or received any messages regarding it, but I’ve noticed a few people mentioning that the fandom is actually getting violent and sending threats and tormenting people. If that’s true, that’s pretty damn sad. :/ Thought better of this fandom.

[aruseri]

[anemonay]

tumblr seems to be so incredibly hostile lately. Like it makes me want to retreat into my shell. Like when I first joined a lot of posts were "Educate yourself! Trans folk are ____" or 'Things which are misgonystic, and why we need to avoid them" etc, and on posts where people were in the wrong a lot of times there'd be a lengthy explanation and everyone would come out the better for it.

Now it's like "fuck u u asshole that's misogynistic as fuck" and "fucking hell that's transphobic you shit, go shove a trombone up ur ass" and I'm just ?????? really confused??????

because how can you expect people to know these things when they've only ever been raised in a bigoted and sheltered environment. Yes, they were in the wrong, but this mob mentality of assaulting them helps no one and only really propagates the aggression. If they do it again after being made aware then yes, they are dicks and they should totally be called out. But all this DOXing, insulting, and what not is not only incredibly bad for both the face and effectiveness of social justice- it's incredibly bad for social justice itself.

Rather than being a force of justice and equality, social justice is becoming a place of arrogance and elitism. Social Justice is becoming a really toxic place- and it's becoming mainstream and commonplace to be the kind of "SJ blogger" that was actually made fun of and warned against just last year.

Key Points:

Call people out for their racist/transphobic/misogynistic/homophobic stuff

Don't be a dick about it

Educate others (as you yourself were likely once educated)

Another common thing I read is "I don't have to be nice to some bigoted asshole!' or "So you're telling me I should bake cupcakes for all the racist people in the world?"

No that's

that's not fucking it and that's such a childish argument it kills

Just be a decent human being please, like you're asking them to do. Don't assume the other person knows everything or even understands what you're upset at them for. Chances are they don't, and it's your place as the informed to educate them (and not be a dick about it) because HOW ARE PEOPLE SUPPOSED TO LEARN IF ALL YOU'RE DOING IS YELLING AT THEM??? 

Noblesse Oblige

[gemiinii24]

Here is me saying that furries are probs pretty cool people BUT I am seriously fucking terrified of people with costumes that cover their entire face/head and if you want to say hi to me in a furry suit take the mask off or I might freak out a bit. Thank.

[kibbits]

Only the beginning of the week (Somehow??? It feels like we're at least Thursday, maybe even Friday!!) But this week is definitely characterized by stupidly weird bad luck and the beautiful beginning of a tendinitis : DDD