I guess I had to add “weird for a married man”. I understand acceptance of your mortality is one of the main themes of the game but if he’s married.. I just find it kinda odd
ah okay, gotcha. i kinda glossed over the “speaking about the ring” part.
as always, major spoilers for requiem
the thing is, i get the impression that leon being married was never meant to be an ‘in your face’ reveal during the game. the reason why people noticed he was married in the first place is because of him subtly putting his wedding band back on at the end of the game, and it’s featured very obviously in the concept art, but it’s never openly referenced in-game. so having him debate his mortality during the game specifically because of his marriage would go against the (intended) subtlety of the devs. if they had leon say “please no don’t kill me i have a family”, then the (short-lived) mystery around his ring would have been immediately dispelled.
i don’t know that him accepting his mortality in requiem is necessarily incompatible with the fact that he’s married. having him come to terms with that, and the fact that it’s okay for him not to be able to save someone, is an integral part of his arc. his marriage is very secondary. but anyway, let’s have a look at this through the prism of each ending:
bad ending: leon gets his ass kicked by zeno, he gets stabbed, and right before he gets shot in the head, he tells grace “at least i could save you”. keep in mind he’s also at what, probably the last stage of his t-virus infection? so i can’t imagine that he’s thinking clearly. i also can’t imagine leon begging for his life because he’s got someone at home. i just can’t picture it.
good ending: after the boss fight, leon knows there’s no way out. he takes a look around him and he can very easily determine that both he and grace are stuck. leon is written, as a character, to be protective: panicking and saying that he needs to get out, because he’s got a wife and kids at home, while this 25-year-old agent who’s scared shitless and has just been stabbed is sitting right there, would run counter to his personality, imo. and i guess he could say “well grace it fucking sucks that we’re gonna die here cause i got shawty waiting for me at home” but it would be so tone deaf to say that to a 25 year old girl who’s dying, when he doesn’t actually know if she might have someone waiting for her and when HE is actually alright now.
at the end of the day, i don’t think marriage would change leon’s reaction to his potential death. he’s not going to beg, because it wouldn’t change anything, and he’s not going to panic, because it wouldn’t change anything either and it would make matters worse for grace. on top of that, since the devs didn’t want to explicitly reveal his married status, they wouldn’t have him address his family life at any point in the game. that being said, there are clues throughout the game that point to leon being married or having a family, beyond the existence of the ring.
but this is an interesting convo, so please guys, do join in if you want to discuss!!