#real gender

[stormyboytristianmatthew-blog]

Ideas for what to do if you think someone's gender is not real.

1. Ignore those feelings. 2. Realize people know themselves better than you do. 3. Accept that someone else's gender is none. Of. Your. Business. 4. Yes even if you are fucking them it's not your business if they don't want it to be.

[yellowsubiesdance]

envy from fullmetal alchemist makes so much sense to me now, they give me complete and utter gender envy

[greedyfather]

people who look at gender-fluid people and try and guess their "real gender" are the absolute fucking worst people

[quierdo]

I was going through the agender tag for shits and  giggles and I guess a lot of agenders suffer with things like what clothes they gonna up and wear and other things like that. And here I am like cheating the system because I don't care enough.

I'mma wear da clothes I wanna wear and I ain't gonna take no shit from none of ya'll.

[feministfawn]

I NEED TO RANT

So I'm watching this movie called "But I'm a Cheerleader" and I'm getting pretty much enraged, because even though this movie is picking fun at a serious topic, I realize how accurate it is. 

They are seriously trying to "ungay" people by force feeding them some bullshit ancient "gender roles" and they are acting as if men and women have a direct set of skills and responsibilities that they must adhere to. 

So basically the men are fixing cars, playing sports, getting firewood, and forever grabbing their junk.

The women are cleaning the house, changing diapers, and cooking. 

WOW.

NO.

If you're a women, you're a woman.

If you're a man, you're a man.

If you're neither, then you're neither. 

Your gender is not defined by the junk in your underwear, it is defined by the "you" that is your mind and soul. 

No one else can ever tell you what you are and are not.