so-called "free thinkers" when they socially and medically transition throughout their late teens and early twenties, turn a queer friend group into a complicated polycule and live in a left leaning metropolitan area:
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so-called "free thinkers" when they socially and medically transition throughout their late teens and early twenties, turn a queer friend group into a complicated polycule and live in a left leaning metropolitan area:
*insert selfie here*
We don't talk enough about the strength it takes to repossess your body after experiencing sexual trauma.
happy 3 yr anniversary to the event that changed the entire course of my 💫 college career 💫
feel like I probably grow attached to people like Atumu does
Life is going by so fast. Tomorrow, Jordan leaves for bible school in BC, Canada. (Pray for him please) I start school next week. Mikayla leaves for the next 10 months for school in San Francisco in two weeks. Soon it will be Christmas. I marry Jordan July 10, 2016. I move up to Canada. Life is crazy and God is still good. The people closest to me are moving but I know God will stir in their hearts and become even more amazing. God can you slow down life please? Or just send Jesus again please?
The last few months have woken me up to all the hypothetical compromises I was already making in my head with work and school and life. I had resigned myself to this idea that I would start my own private practice as a therapist and never be responsible for other people and this would be a good fit if I wanted to have kids. Long gone was the teenager with the gumption to aim for the impossible and move 1,000 miles away from home without even blinking. I had already settled before the future even became the present. I had become one of those women that starts slowly down in anticipating of having to in the future. ME. I had never in a million years anticipated that I would be doing that.
Today I realize that I can be a leader, and I can go get whatever I want for myself. I can have a small private practice if I want, but why settle for that now simply because I anticipate not having the time or energy in the future. I am so grateful for all the BAMFy ladies in my life, real and fictional, who have helped me realize that.
Cheers to being a grownup and cheers to going out and getting what I want. :)