The difference between being tempted to consider whether or not to make your character trans, just as you, and finally having the courage to ignore others' opinions and do what feels comfortable to you as the creator of said character and make it their MAIN storyline and struggle and not just your inner thought-
versus using the only trans character you allowed as an eye candy because she's a "chick with a d*ck, and a very big one LOL" only selling sexual merch of them all the time and never giving actual relevancy to said character except so you can still sell it in that merch...
Trans women (and men) deserve better than being the Token trans character and Gooner Merch Slop honestly.