#relationship balance

[truethingsiwishicouldsay]

So you’re dating a guy #1

So you’re dating a guy, and you wonder if you’re capitulating too much and doing too much of the relationship work. He’s not actually abusive or neglectful, but you’re not happy, and worry that you’re the only one putting real work into your relationship. Here’s a test which may help clarify things. 

Spend an entire day with him treating him exactly as he treats you. 

Same amount of effort, same amount of affection, same amount of respect. If you’re constantly doing him little kindnesses that he never returns, stop doing them. Don’t defer to his opinion more than he defers to yours. If  If he asks if you are mad at him, or reacts negatively, you will know at once that there’s an imbalance in your relationship that has to be addressed. 

NB: If he reacts VERY negatively, just throw out the whole boyfriend.

[femininesolar]

venus in libra wants beauty with balance. harmony, meaningful connection, and an honest standard matter more than keeping everything pleasant.

check the full reading

[sanpreetsingh]

When Busy Lives Quietly Push Love to the Background

Modern city life often rewards productivity, ambition, and constant motion—but relationships can quietly pay the price. Many partners living in fast-paced environments notice a gradual fading of closeness, even when there is no major conflict. Intimacy Loss Among Urban Couples rarely happens overnight; it grows through packed schedules, digital distractions, and emotional fatigue. Couples may still share a home and responsibilities, yet feel strangely disconnected, as if the relationship has slipped into maintenance mode rather than meaningful connection.

Rebuilding intimacy doesn’t always require dramatic gestures or long vacations. It often begins with small, intentional pauses—moments of undivided attention, honest check-ins, or simply sitting together without multitasking. These micro-connections help restore emotional safety, which is the real foundation of intimacy. Reflections found on sanpreetsingh.com frequently highlight that intimacy is less about time quantity and more about emotional presence. When partners learn to protect even brief moments of genuine connection, closeness can return naturally, even in the middle of demanding urban routines.

[intentional-relationship]

Re-evaluating Household Roles: Are They Still Working for Your Relationship?

Re-evaluating Household Roles: Are They Still Working for Your Relationship?

[theearthforce]

We all have needs that others help us fulfill, e.g. companionship, support with life’s tasks, or a little financial help.

The key is finding a balance that makes it a win-win for everyone. 💕

[amindbodyandspirit]

Wow what a weekend.. Advanced PSYCH-K Workshop

I am still buzzing 2 days later. So many new and profound tools for change Thank you so much to my amazing teacher Joan Cameron!

The Core Belief balance - if life has always been a struggle this balance is probably for you. If you aren't aligned in the positive with all of the beliefs in this balance it may explain a few things.This is only done once.

Relationship balance - want any relationship to improve? No counseling needed. You can improve your relationships with other people or yourself or even with things like your career and weight, men or women in general. This balances the energy between whomever or whatever you choose and yourself.

Life Bonding Balance - removes fear around birth and death, it transforms stress from traumatic events in your life.

Surrogation - if your kids, parents or someone who can't come to a session needs some balancing it's easy.  I can now also do long distance sessions with or without skype.

Belief Points and energy focusing - a great tool for creating change through belief points

Rapport balance - excellent for people who often feel misunderstood. It may be your non-verbal communication.

I really want to help people realise their true potential without fears and limitations. With the help of your wisdom and PSYCH-K it's easy.

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Lisa

www.amindbodyandspirit.com