#remus kin

[moochymoony]

remus kin’d so hard i now have multiple chronic health concerns

[spacedreamon]

Remus Sanders Userboxes

Credit me if you use

[brandileigh2003]

I love remus lupin. He never does anything wrong (false, but I love him all the more for it bc I see myself in those imperfections and mistakes)

I just want to wrap him in a blanket and keep him safe from the world.

He's my favorite, the one I relate to. Who i see myself in-- not just bc chronic illness, pain, disability but I'll admit that drew me in so much.

Love of reading esp as escapism/coping mechanism.

The anger that he tries to hide until he can't. the self doubt, low self esteem, don't feel good enough, trust issues, can be self destructive, wanting academic or job validation. (When I did those things). Over thing. Fear of being alone. Not good at asking for or accepting help.

Needing alone time, other times craving company of specific people, pushing people away, sometimes when I need them most. Wanting to be alone when upset but also secretly want someone to follow me and sit with me. Likes physical touch but awkward about it and not good at asking for it. So awkward sometimes. Grumpy but tries so hard to be kind. Not great at expressing feelings, but feels things deeply.

Feeling like outsider, that not accepted by world bc who I am. (Only sometimes, I have my core, but even then doubt. But also reassured)

the mental health struggles. Anxiety, depression, self hate, spirals. Insomnia or sleeping too much

being a good listener but not sure how to comfort them, sarcasm, try to accept them as they are, try to take care of others, and adores Sirius Black.

[creatively-deceptive]

Since it's past midnight here and I know I'm gonna forget to post about it later today but Happy 4 year Remus kiniversary to me >:}D

[s3okj]

sirius black 🤝 patrick

being the same

person

[serpentinesomebody]

You cannot convince me that anyone who kins any of the sides is okay and that’s because your options are:

Repressed father figure with catholic guilt

Repressed father figure but make it Smart and Nerdy and Bad At Social Interaction

The embodiment of anxiety

Compulsive liar with no friends

Unhinged chaos incarnate

Spicy self-esteem issues with a side of superiority complex

[starboy-at-the-disco]

Shitty dukexiety mood board

[kinmusics]

Hi could I request a kin playlist for Remus/The Duke from Sanders Sides, who struggles with loneliness/feeling left out but also the desire to unapologetically be themselves? Im not a huge fan of country but anything else is good genre wise! Thank you very much and I hope you all have a happy new year!

No problem, and happy (late) new years to you too!! Sorry this took so long, I hope you like this!! - Mod Ara

1. Cause For Concern - Lovejoy

2. Erase Me - Ben Folds Five

3. One Day - Lovejoy

4. Ribs - the crane wives

5. Ghosting - Mother Mother

6. Mother Mary - Mr. Kitty

7. Dread in my Heart - Mother Mother

8. Donut Hole - Hachi

Here's the Spotify playlist!! - Mod Ara