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[blairhappiness-blog]

youreallyknow replied to your post: youreallyknow replied to your post: ANNIE! I...

I’m fine—but I’ve missed A LOT. (I’m glad you turned your anon ask off btw, I’m preeetty sure you’ll be bombarded by: BLAIR’S HAPPY NOW. ISN’T THAT WHAT YOUR BLOG IS ABOUT.) Hahaha

Yeah. i was getting attacked a lot by DB fans and anti-chuck people, attacking my url, my character as a person, my arguments even tho i make my argument self-substantiating. so turning anon off is the best thing for me. plus i'm not currently watching the show and i wouldn't be able to answer the many questions they would send me. i plan to relaunch my ask but for now my sanity is top priority.

my blog is about Blair happiness and my conviction is that her happiness is with Chuck. i don't see much to discuss on the subject tbh

[blairhappiness-blog]

youreallyknow replied to your post: ANNIE! I joined the Victor Victrola rewatch + wwtweeting and found out you were Anne stacia! HOHO I’m still not used to tweeting things (nor how that site ~really works or how you see replies (?) or what) but I’m learning (+ it’s too difficult to write with a character limit. What even.) Anyway I haven’t watched the new episode but I heard the show continues to ruin all my precious AU pairings (simultaneously destroying our canon otp). Le creys

omfg Anne. I can already tell you don’t recognize me. HOW DARE CHUU. loljk it’s ethu and i almost always call you annie /hurt feelz

 youreallyknow said: PSPSPSPS: MY DAIR LOVES I CANNOT EXPRESS AND RELEASE (it’s slowly deteriorating tbh. Ruination of ships: GG does it best.)

OMG. TWINNY FOR LIFE. HOW ARE YOU? I WAS SAYING HOW MUCH I MISS YOU YESTERDAY WHEN I SAW THAT CHILY SCENE FROM 1X07 DURING THE VICTOR VICTROLA RE-WATCH.

I'M SORRY I DIDN'T RECOGNIZE YOU. I DIDN'T CHECK YOUR BLOG FIRST. BUT OMG. I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE IN MY ASK. I KNOW THAT I DON'T SHIP DB AND I HAVEN'T BEEN WATCHING THE EPS BUT I HEARD THE WRITERS ARE DOING A HATCHET JOB ON IT TBH. WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT? THE ONLY WAY FOR SLS AND CHARACTERS TO REMAIN SAFE IS IF THE WRITERS DON'T GET THEIR HANDS ON IT. THEY ONLY KNOW HOW TO SPIN GOLD INTO MUD. I MISS SCHWARTZ AND SAVAGE TBH.

 BTW. DON'T MIND THE CAPS. I'M JUST EXCITED TO HEAR FROM YOU.

[blairhappiness-blog]

None of them are saints, and that's what make their relationship interesting. people are not perfect, we make mistakes to grow up. Sometimes we hurt the people we care the most. We learn to live with other person's deffects and they learn to live with our own. Chuck understands the real Blair like no one else. Dan doesn't love her for her, because he used to hate everything about her Chuck always leaned to love.

very valid points with which i concur.

the "Dan loves me for me" thing was the biggest, dumbest shitload they've ever given us. srsly. what is that supposed to mean? i already explained why Dan doesn't love Blair for her -- not that he doesn't love her, because it's very clear that he does. Dan's love for Blair is whole. but i don't believe he loves the whole of her like the writers are making it seem. there is a grave discrepancy there. Like i explained, He has said it himself that he loves her in spite of her, meaning that he loves her but loving her is not intrinsic. It's something that he has to grow to accept. And the dark side of her, he makes them opaque and boldface the sides that he likes, like he did in his book.

Chuck has always loved all of her for her. so that quote really pissed me off.

[blairhappiness-blog]

ANNIE! I joined the Victor Victrola rewatch + wwtweeting and found out you were Anne stacia! HOHO I'm still not used to tweeting things (nor how that site ~really works or how you see replies (?) or what) but I'm learning (+ it's too difficult to write with a character limit. What even.) Anyway I haven't watched the new episode but I heard the show continues to ruin all my precious AU pairings (simultaneously destroying our canon otp). Le creys

lol yes i am. But you spelt my name wrong. I enjoyed the re-watch as well.

Me either, i haven't watched since 5x15 and i'm perfectly fine not watching the show until i can be sure my heart is not going to be stomped all over. I'm not doing it bc DB is happening. DB happening is not favorable for me but it wouldn't bother me if the writing and characterization didn't kill me so much. i need to remain sane, that's all.

[blairhappiness-blog]

even though that old part of me wants them together, the other part thinks its too late. too much has happened, they've changed too much to be the chair we all loved. idk. :'( i just can't see how they can be together anymore.

well i understand you're exhausted. we're all drained but we didn't fight so long to give in. WE HAVE TO SEE THIS THROUGH TO THE END

all i can say is 

IN THE FACE OF TRUE LOVE....YOU DON'T JUST GIVE UP

 lol. sometimes you should amuse yourself with gossip girl quotes instead of reflecting on them. laughing it off like idc. it keeps my head from exploding

night girls.

[blairhappiness-blog]

I've been reading your thoughts on tonight's ep & CBD & I cant agree more with you. There is a total double standard & people are freaking out about B's actions to a degree that I dont remember people doing when C did things. I don't think B dating D really has to do with picking C or D but more that I really think she just needs time to be 21. I dont think she's been "in" love with L or C this whole season & she's not with D either, he's just different and doesn't carry the pressure of forever.

yeah

no one's writing DB off as endgame. I don't think they're being presented that way either. If anything Chuck and Blair are the only ones who share this recurring theme. 

I support Chuck and Blair 100% and DB couldn't entice me in any way but people going at Blair, the way they are is completely irrational and just ridiculous. If i have claim to this fandom, i want others to represent me well and those accusations are just shameful and very dim. Erin, you and i seem to agree most of the time despite our differences in ships and characters. I hope it can remain like that even if the fandom is in crisis.

I guess the part being 21 makes sense but there are several pieces to the puzzle that we don't know. so i really am not in a position to judge Blair rn. i can have opinions of her behavior but i cannot judge her. I just want to keep a cool composure about the whole thing if possible.

[blairhappiness-blog]

ur greatness right now is overwhelming me. FINALLY someone who is a Chair fan and is fan of both Blair and Chuck, not just Chuck. I feel like people forget he had other relationships that were meaningful to him too.

i know a few people who root just as hard for Blair as they do for Chuck but you are right, from my experience it's just a handful. Not saying that there couldn't more people but they are definitely not showing their stripes well enough. sometimes, believe me, i feel very alone in this fandom. But i wouldn't compromise my stance just to fit in with others. i can promise you one thing. If i write something and publish it on this blog. maybe 85% is verbose embellishment but 15 % will be straigh to the point, compact statements. And if i claim it, i believe it and i've sure enough thought about it. 

A lot of people say they like my blog because i'm honest and i am.

 thanks. you're kind.

[blairhappiness-blog]

i hope you're not mad, bb. i respect your opinion, but i just feel like chuck got hate for sleeping with jenny, so it only makes sense that she gets hate too. you know?

i wouldn't be mad with you girls. you respect my opinion and i respect yours. we both want the best for Chair, maybe i'm pulling more for Blair at the moment bc she's the one without the voice and you're pulling more for Chuck because he's the one getting hurt. either way, they're both victims of bad writing. i have security in my heart that they love each other. I think if bad things happen now its's better than to have to anticipate them in the future.