The more we learn, the more we understand how little we actually know
(It is incredible what we discover when we expect it the least.)
As a teen, i would always stay between the same lines, looking for people that have the same view of things as my own. I would rarely step outside this circle and would be really judgmental towards people that acted/thought/spoke in a different way. I did not think i would be able to relate to others and ,to a level, saw them as strangers or enemies.
At the same time, i always felt a very strong need to be able to connect with others on a deeper level, to communicate freely, to exchange experiences. But something was always stopping me. I was afraid of what i would find. i was afraid of what others would see.
Recently, i decided to open up more. To step outside of the limits i was setting for myself, without any expectations. To let all my fears go and reach out. I am really grateful for everything I have learned ever since that moment and the things that i will come to know in the future insha Allah.
I am starting to see the beauty in diversity, the wisdom behind the way we are created-how we complete each other and make each other stronger, how being open can open so many opportunities to do good, how leaving my nafs behind allows me to look at people through my heart, how everybody contributes to His Plan.
I found that, ultimately, what we all want stays the same, no matter how much our other characteristics differ. We all want happiness, safety, love, harmony. This is what we truly need. And i find it extraordinary how each of us expresses this longing differently.
After understanding these things, it seems that we are acting against our own nature. What is the purpose of war/conflict? We are blinded and we do not understand that following our own interest, breaking peoples hearts, breaking ties will only lead to our own destruction. There is no winning party when one of us falls. We are bound to each other and the only way to make the world a better place is by working together and seeing the true value in ourselves and the people around us.