there's an international dressage rider and instructor based at a local riding school & very popular national competition center (which her family owns and runs), and the riding school page keeps inviting me to like her page on facebook
and i'm there like... this instructor absolutely DESTROYED my confidence by basically ridiculing me for wanting to play with some more advanced movements on schoolmaster horses - which is part of what the ADVERTISE THEIR SCHOOLMASTER LESSONS AS BEING FOR - and basically said to my face in a lesson i was PAYING HER FOR that i was a shit rider with no grasp of even the basics required for anything more advanced than a walk to canter transition
like i got a lesson with her as a present from my parents for my 16th birthday and she literally destroyed my confidence...
i'm not going to like her fucking advanced training lesson page or promote her?? like fuck that! fuck her!!
i'm all for CONSTRUCTIVE criticism... but basically telling a rider they're shit and giving no advice on how to improve and literally SAYING TO THE FACE OF A 16 YEAR OLD GIRL THAT THEY'RE WASTING YOUR TIME BY WANTING A LESSON FROM YOU is just so rude and i would never endorse a trainer like that
like she needs to get over herself, she may be trained by carl hester and charlotte dujardin but she isn't anywhere near their level of success and needs to check her fucking attitude because i'm pretty sure even they wouldn't say that to a paying client...










