send me a ship and I’ll tell you (blacklist “askgame for ts" to avoid)
who was/is the one to propose: Sam arranges a very romantic scenery and Jess is already be suspicious but when he kneels down in front of her, her mouth just drops and she cries out a happy yes, falling into his arms.
who’s stressed more over wedding planning: Sam would be while Jess would tell him that everything was double checked and perfectly organized, so he would stop worrying.
who decorated the house: Both of them.
who shops for groceries: They’d take turns.
who remembers to feed the fish: Jess feeds them because Sam is a little oblivious.
who initiates duets: Jess starts singing and dancing around Sam and he starts smiling like an idiot before dancing with her and singing along.
who does the cooking: Again, they take turns or even help each other in the kitchen.
who’s the cuddler: Sam. Whenever he gets the opportunity to embrace her and snuggle against her, he does it. Whether it’s while watching TV or while she’s reading in bed.
who comes home drunk at 3am: Come on, neither!
who kills the spiders: Both wouldn’t mind, I think.
who falls asleep first: Jess just feels so comfortable in his arms that she falls asleep first.
who has the most patience: It depends on the situation. Sam is more likely to worry about silly things but Jess would manage to calm him down. Jess can lose her patience too though and get frustrated easily.
their relationship summed up in a gif: