Hello!
I am harvesting a bough from a tree on my family property, which has been tended by four generations of our hands. The branch will be be made into a magical instrument vital to my family's tradition of magic, and yet I find myself nervous to ask.
Do you have any tips for wooing a plant ally for such a task? How may I repay her for it?
What a beautiful and fortunate relationship to have with a tree! I think it's absolutely lovely that you carry on this tradition.
Frankly, I think it's likely that the spirit of this tree already loves you. You are part of a family who has tended it for generations, and it has seen you grow over the years. That carries a lot more weight than people may think. Beyond that, though, there are some simple things that can be done to help "woo" a plant ally, as you put it.
Firstly, I would make multiple, meaningful offerings to the tree. I'm not sure how that might look within the context of your familial tradition, but offerings of food, libation, and/or precious items are good staple propitiations. Offerings of your hair and blood may also help to bind and endear you to the tree, but that is probably better to only do if you intend to carry on propitiating the tree.
Secondly, it's a good idea to ask the tree, aloud, for its wood. Omens and signs that follow such entreaties are worth watching out for, should they be immediate, or show up later in dreams.
Thirdly, when you feel you are ready to harvest, do it with precision and care. Try your best to minimize harm to the plant in the process by using good tools and clean cuts, and don't take more than you need.
Finally, this is pretty specific to my tradition, but any time I harvest a length of wood, I completely cover the site of the wound with my own blood. I was told long ago in a dream that doing so helps to soothe the spirit of a tree, as well as helping it to heal in some way, and so I always carry out this final act. This tradition has served me well and has always felt intuitively right to me, so I've decided to share it here now.
Good luck going forward!











