#rl kink

[fattlestacks]

I wish I had a cutie with a fat round pot belly so I could bury my face in it. Warm snuggles & belly button kisses. 💕

[fattlestacks]

Hey everyone! Welcome to my side blog for chubby nonsense & belly kink. If you're looking for my main, it's @jaymzeecat

Feel free to send an Ask with questions, headcanons, suggestions & ideas (no requests, sorry!) Please keep the below information in mind when corresponding with me:

I'm Ace and I don't draw or write NSFW/sexual content. Questions or correspondence involving sexual content will likely be deleted/ignored. I mostly enjoy cute, fluffy stuff and would appreciate more interaction as such. Please be mindful that posts marked as commissions are not necessarily representative of what I'm personally into. Commissions & Patreon drawings of my OC's are generally not canon.

My personal favorite kinks:

-Stuffed Bellies (mostly realistic sizes)

-Tight Clothes & Strained/Popped Buttons

-Mild Weight Gain (pot belly sizes mostly)

-Consensual, non-dangerous Forcefeeding

-Belly buttons

Kinks I’m NOT into:

Mpreg, Vore, Moderate to Extreme Weight Gain, Musclechub, Ex-jock, Mutual Stuffing/Mutual Weight Gain, Slobs Blobs etc. Unsanitary, Bodily Fluids/Farts, Harm, Gore

Not kinks but I also just really love cute stuff like belly pillows, snuggling, and comfy pajamas/kigurumis.

I’m an admirer only! Please don’t make comments about my chubbiness. :(

No minors! I assure you I am much older than you think I am! You don’t need to be following me OR talking to me.

Questions & correspondence about my OC's are welcome!

I don't RP, sorry!

Commissions: Only open periodically but can sometimes sell out fast. Keep an eye out for my Open Commissions post if you want one.

Also...

Please keep in mind that I’m vegan. I know that food comes with the territory when you’re a part of the feedist community or whatever and I certainly can’t stop you from sending me pictures of meat filled food or talking to me about it, but I’d really appreciate if you didn’t. I like tummies anyway... there’s really no reason to send me pics of food...

Please don’t send me kink direct messages (ie: “I’m so stuffed” “I’m so full”, sending me unsolicited pics of your body etc.) if we have not established that we have that sort of relationship with one another. Believe me, if I’m interested in that I will let you know!

Make sure you have something to say! I’m totally open for DM’s but if you continually send me repetitive messages that go nowhere, only have one-sided conversations with me (ie: talk about yourself constantly and never converse with me both ways) or if you make me uncomfortable for any reason, you will be blocked without warning or explanation. I have a very hard time establishing/enforcing boundaries with people online, but I’m trying to get better about it.

Links!

Patreon, Twitter, Furaffinity, Pixiv

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For the kink rating: borborygmi/tummy noises?

No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know |

While not a kink for me, I do find them enjoyable. Sometimes just because they're amusing but mostly because they are relaxing. If you've ever had the pleasure of resting your head on a nice soft tummy and just listening to all the little bubbles and noises ah... that's the good stuff. Sometimes you can hear the person's heart beat too and... I dunno I just find that cute. Their body is alive and working and they're spending quality time with you... Makes you feel so at peace.

Belly pillows (a separate but related thing) are a FUCK yes for me though. Both kink and non-kink depending on the circumstances. The sounds are part of the enjoyment but also the warmth and the rising and falling while the other person breathes and your head just sinks further into their fat tummy. A++ would recommend.

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Yes or giving a big bear hug.

No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know |

Not a kink thing for me, but I for sure like hugs from soft chubby partners. If they want to lie on me or for me to lie on them, I would love that too but mostly just because I like cuddles and snuggles.

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How to Talk to Someone Online Part 2

Or: “You just made an inappropriate peer to teen choice behavior!”

*cue Commandoes in the Classroom theme song*

CW: RL Kink and NSFW discussion under the cut

You know, it’s been quite a while since someone randomly slid into my DM’s and sent me a dick pic. I suppose I should consider myself lucky but it may have been long overdue at this point...

But that and the conversation that followed got me thinking... perhaps it’s time to have a little discussion again about how to talk to people online. Consider this a sister post to my previous post on the subject. 

1. Let’s be Friends: We’re all human beings behind these kink blogs and as such, social creatures. When you send me a message saying that you’d like to be friends, I’m inclined to believe it. The next step should not be “And here’s my dick.” I didn’t even know this person’s age (he told me after he was 20, but what do I know? It’s not like I can confirm that...). There’s nothing wrong with chatting with someone and becoming friends with them first before broaching the subject of whether or not you may be compatible kink partners. I assure you it’s way more fun when you have more in common than just your kinks. Try it out sometime.

2. You Can Talk to Me: I get it... talking kinks is tough sometimes. Especially when you’re a young person and you’re just trying to figure this stuff out. I have said this before, but it’s worth mentioning again that as long as you’re not a minor I am totally cool discussing kink questions/curiosities/concerns/whatever that you all might have. I may not have all the answers but I don’t mind talking this stuff out with you. But it’s the way you talk to me that matters... This is not an open invitation to send me unsolicited tummy and dick pics. If I want to see your tummy, believe me I will let you know.

Now it should be mentioned, these things mostly apply to talking to me. I can’t speak for everyone and we’re all different... but I do believe they are a good place to start. It’s totally fine to begin a conversation with “Hey, is it okay to talk to you about (insert subject)?” just be sure to respect someone’s boundaries if they say no.

Also just for me... cool it with the meat talk and pics. Y’all know I’m vegan, right? T^T I get that it comes with the territory in the feedist community but you don’t need to send me that stuff...

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For the kink rating: size difference?

No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know |

This one is dependent on what we're talking about specifically as "size difference" could mean a few things, I think. When it comes to belly kink stuff I tend to prefer just one person in the pairing to be stuffed and/or gain weight. Mutual weight gain or mutual stuffing is mostly lost on me, I'm afraid (might even be a turn-off if I'm being honest, but that's just me). I think this probably stems from how I feel about my own body or whatever... I personally don't like to self-stuff or gain weight. But I like it a whole lot when other people do! So... in a way I guess you could say I like size difference, though since my preferences are on the small side it's not much of a size difference. Especially when sometimes the "non-belly kink" one will be mildly chubby in the first place (for example Carter & Kojiro) but they won't be stuffed or gain more weight. As far as major size differences go like... if one character is super skinny and the other is very fat is a bit irrelevant to me since it's outside of my size preferences anyway. I don't have a horse in that race, haha.

But if we're talkin' size difference when it comes to heights? That's a FUCK yes! I love it when one character is short and one is tall (for example Karamatsu & Chibita). Stark height differences are so cute! T^T