Okay but what struggles or conflict has she even had?
-She gave herself some kind of functional amnesia about her parental abuse and abandonment. That is not the behavior of someone who’s not struggling. That’s the behavior of someone who is absolutely on the edge and barely holding it together through a complex system of self-delusion.
-Discovering her force powers isn’t a “pure uwu” magical girl full of love and softness experience for her. She’s someone who’s known helplessness and has a deep fear and equally deep rage and nearly murderates Kylo after he’s on the ground. She nearly fell to the Dark Side in that moment, if we take Daisy’s performance + the novelization together.
-Luke saying she went straight to The Dark because it had something she needed/wanted
-Her trying desperately to be the Good Child for Luke as part of her complex system of delusion re: authority figures and wanting desperately to please them - and then, in a very rapid and terrifying switch, unleashing her suppressed rage at authority figures at him. Lashing out at him, brutally, attacking him when his back is turned and then, in the middle of a nonlethal fight, pulling her saber to her and igniting it and pulling back her arm as if to strike.
Another moment of nearly falling to the Dark.
-The throne room offer isn’t a hero moment if we’re not supposed to understand it to be a real offer and Rey as genuinely tempted - it’s not heroic in SW to be a trembling freaking Lifetime movie heroine turning down an Abuse offer from An Abuser (tm). It is heroic to, in a lifetime of powerlessness and being Nobody but wanting desperately to be Somebody, turn down being co-tyrant of the galaxy (the offer is to “rule together” not be his subject!) with a hot guy you’re kinda into enough to want to reach out and feel up his big warm hand and share lightsabers and fight together, back to back all sexy with.
There was a filmed line where Luke accused her of, re: Kylo, “open[ing] yourself to the dark side for a pair of pretty eyes.”
It was meant to be a goddamned real temptation ffs.
For power, for sex. To make the galaxy that had made her feel so helpless and unsafe and and small and worthless/like nobody bend to her will. To have the dark “prince” she wants to bang.
If she were a male lead nobody would have a problem with temptation for power coming along with temptation for sex.
But because she’s a heroine people have to mentally rewrite her to strip that from her or hate her; I’ve seen antis post TLJ admit that they hate her for being attracted to him. And a lot of fanboys believe the sexist idea that horniness in women diminishes them rather than being part of just being a full human person.
If Rey were Ray and Kylo were Kyla everyone would be able to look his heroism in the throne room and his genuine temptation in the eye. But Rey is female, so people have created their own complex system of delusions about her character.
Which is fine, but the vicious way they’ve treated female fans who actually get what the story is doing really has made me run out of patience with them.
Especially the fact that they think it’s more “feminist” for Rey to functionally be an eternal child, Luke’s obedient baby girl who’s never had a dark thought or sexual feeling in her entire life. That is so fucking absurd to me. To come after a story for letting a heroine not have to be “pure” - like, since when is a Victorian view of female sexuality more Woke than what we got in TLJ?
People are so sexist female characters don’t even get to have any complicated sexual feelings at all or else somehow they’re dirty and inferior - so people engage in this collective denial bc they cannot stand her as she is. But without temptation there’s no actual heroism???
The fact that anti types and some male fans cannot stand a heroine having fear, rage, desire for power and horny, dark, complex feelings (which she handles ultimately bc she’s a big damn hero... but you have to have those feelings to be heroic in handling them!) is their own damn problem at this point.
They’ve spent three years “shooting the messenger.”