Sweetening Your Existing Relationships and Attracting New Ones Into Your Life
Instructions:
Cleanse a jar using your preferred method. I used the smoke from a stick of incense that my family uses as the “house” incense.
Layer each of the following herbs in the jar one by one, stating your intention for each as you go. The order is of no significance, but I did them in this order:
One part Pink Salt for self love,
One part Dirt from your family's home, or from a relative's grave (alternatively, you can substitute rosemary) for familial love,
One part Rose Petals for romantic love*,
One part Hibiscus for lust*,
A whole clove for each of your friends (naming each of them off as you place them in the jar)
Drizzle honey over the top, allowing it to sink to the bottom and coat all of the components. This is to sweeten and nourish each of your current relationships, and to attract new ones into your life.
Close your jar and seal with pink or red wax.
A few Notes:
*I replaced the rose petals and hibiscus with two parts of my Gay T4T herb mix (which you can find here), which actually IS just rose and hibiscus with the added components of lavender (to specify gay love) and juniper berries (to specify transmasculinity.)
You can also grind these herbs together in a mortar and pestle and use them as incense, make a sachet, or steep in any neutral oil to create an anointing oil.
Feel free to modify this to your tastes. You might skip the rose petals if you are aromantic, or skip the rosemary if you are not on good terms with your family (but remember that chosen family is just as important as your family of origin!) Mix and match, omit, add or substitute! Be creative and have fun!
xoxo, Topaz
