Ah, so this pairing isn’t very common. Why? Well INFP and ESTJ are often paired as “opposites”, and yes this is true, but they can still work to together, and they do have a bit in common. The best example I could find for this pairing would be Colette and Linguini from Ratatouille, a classic pairing. In the beginning they often clash, as they both have separate ways they prefer to do things, but they both share a love and passion for cooking. Eventually they even find a way to work together, and start catching feelings for each other. I really love this pairing, I’d love to see more “opposite” pairings like this that actually end up together in a healthy relationship. Pairings like IxFJ x ExTP, however, are actually really common, and even IxTJ x ExFP at times. Pairings like INFP x ESTJ, INTP x ESFJ, ISFP x ENTJ, etc, don’t really get as much romantic attention, not just the rivalry.