#romanticity

[sleepycatten]

Pssst.

I don't know who needs to read or hear this today, but:

Your gender, sexuality, and romanticity are valid.

You are worthy of love and friendship as your true self.

You're doing the best you can and I'm proud of you.

[mrs-prue]

I liked my stay in Vienna....Sissi there is immortal and there's something like nostalgic in the air...I think after spending time in this city you never come back the same... Mrs Prue #mrsprue #vienna #vienne #austria #autriche #travelling #tourism #mylife #baroque #lifestyle #classic #sissi #mozart #sissiimperatrice #kaiserin #travelers #romanticity #europe #schönburg #castlelife #castle #chateau #romyshneider (à Hotel Kaiserin Elisabeth) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7abU7Cowo7/?igshid=15do7c0gdm0j7

[sorryicantquitequeeryou-side]

I Don’t Care VS Carefree

So I’ve realized recently that there are two types of “I don’t care” when people actually mean it. I mean more than just “this topic doesn’t interest me”.

1) Negative Connotation: Careless, you have no cares and you feel numb. You feel down in life to a point where you just don’t care about things anymore. Ie, depression.

2) Positive Connotation: Carefree, you have no cares in the world because life seems to be going alright. You don’t feel the need to worry about anything. Things may be wrong but you feel that there aren’t really things that you can do so why worry?

I’m fascinated with this second version because I felt this way for almost two weeks solid. It’s not depression. It’s almost like a state of enlightenment. I felt more cheerful but not ecstatically happy. It was “I don’t care” with a happy spin on it. 

For me personally i think it was because I was trying so hard not to read into what people were saying and doing. If they wanted me to realize or tell me something then they had to directly tell me in an obvious manner. No assumptions or inferences. I did this on recommendation from my therapist. Mainly because I was reading too far into things my ex was saying, posting, and doing. I feel like not caring is too much but reading into everything is far too much so I’m working on finding that happy balance right now. 

Anyway, thought I’d share my discoveries with the world!

[keybladespirit]

On my "making up a label to describe something highly specific about myself" bullshit again.

The word I've made up this time is "amatoklinic," referring to a person who experiences romantic attraction as a deeply negative emotion.

Amato- from the same roots as in "amatonormativity," referring to romantic desire.

-klinic from the Greek "klinein," meaning "to lean," in this case referring to leaning away from one's own romantic desires.

Think of it as a sub-label under Romance-Averse.

[puranpolianidoodh]

Bas ek baar ek ladka mujhe pyaar se dekhe ye main bhi deserve karti hu

[puntidivista]

http://puntidivista12.blogspot.it/2017/05/venere-di-milo.html è una delle più #famose #sculture #greche si trova al #museodellouvre #parigi #comments #like4like #art #holidays #romanticity (presso Musée du Louvre)

[vriskamcelroy]

Being trans and also mostly a lesbian is weird. Because like if I’m open to someone about my sexuality/romanticity but not my gender, I can’t really say I’m mostly gay because they’ll think that means I mostly like guys. Which is false. Like honestly I’m not worried about coming out to my parents about sexuality/romanticity but honestly it’s just so weird. Like. Ugh. I’m not hetero. But I’m not not hetero in the way you’re about to think I’m not hetero.