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i really love the series for the record, though admittedly i haven’t thought to reread it in a while. (excuuuse me while i bring it up in a tab again…) by the second part in the series, i thought deaton knew pretty well how much stiles needed what he was given. i think it was trying to get stiles to admit it to himself that was more difficult.
Yup, the series is mostly concentrating on that. Alan has very good instincts and he’d been domming for most of his adult life in that universe. He knows pretty well how much Stiles can take, but I think it would be different in a relationship. Like, both easier and harder, because at this point, Alan knows that Stiles wants him to dom him - that’s exactly why he went back - but in a steady relationship it might be harder for them to notice when it’s time to go all-out, because I don’t see them as doing solid 24/7 thing for longer than a week. I don’t think Stiles could take going longer before wanting to be more independent. But like, that’s just my silly headcanon for my silly fic LOL
