#rude manager

[askjennie]

My best friend of four years now started working at the same salon a year ago,everything was going very well, and everyone got along.Recently we got a new manager who made big changes and was very rude. Then she convinced my best that one of our friends at the salon stole clients off of my books and got her in a lot of trouble.She has never wronged me and I have no proof she took from me, but my best friend is convinced and I’m losing her by doing what I feel is morally correct. Please help :(

This is difficult to understand. If I’m correct, your new manager convinced your best friend that one of your other friends stole your clients, and you don’t believe it but your best friend does?

All you can do is continue to be honest and genuine. If you don’t believe that your friend stole your clients, then behave as though you don’t. You can talk to your best friend, and let her know “hey, I feel like I’m losing you because I don’t believe that (friend) stole my clients, which is confusing and hurtful to me”. It’s possible that she has evidence that you haven’t heard about yet, and it’s worth asking her if she has any more information to give you, so you can continue to make informed choices. But if your best friend refuses to be friends with you because of this situation... that sucks, and you couldn’t have done anything to prevent it. Ultimately, that’s her choice. 

[impossiblyspookydestiny]

I never imagined turning down an interview, but after missing one phone call at six am (seriously?!?!) and receiving a rude email saying ‘you must clearly not want the job, but if you do please call’ then calling only to be told to call later and being abruptly hung up on before I could even ask for a time preference or thank them for their time. I then called again several hours later and had to spend twenty minutes explaining that I missed the call, got an email, and still want the job, to a quite frankly rude and dismissive manager who told me to resubmit an application whilst talking to me as though I was a complete nuisance, I could practically see him rolling his eyes as I spoke. After all of that, I have decided that I will not be resubmitting. I’m sorry, but first impressions matter and if this is the standard of manners and courtesy put forwards by management, I can only imagine how much I would hate working at the establishment. So thank you Mr Manager, you prevented me from taking a job I would have inevitably ended up quitting after a month.

[cameronsbutt]

I really want to tell Adub about how rude Stefanie was to me, but I don't know how to like...tell them. I tried Tumblr and now I'm going to try Twitter, but I don't know if they are actually going to read it.